How do you know if a girl likes you or even has a crush on you? These days, it can be quite difficult to know. She may be acting friendly, but what if she’s friendly towards everyone? Is she flirting, or are you imagining it?
Some women are more outgoing than others, so they may seem like they’re flirting even when they’re not. And some are shy, so they may seem withdrawn and uninterested even if they have a huge crush! It can be pretty hard to figure out, which is why we wrote this guide.
Sections
- Signs she likes you
- Does your best friend have a crush on you?
- How can you know for sure if a girl likes you?
47 signs she likes you
Unless a girl tells you outright that she likes you, you will have to try to understand by her context clues. When we have a crush on someone, there are usually changes in behavior around that person. Some changes are intentional (if they’re trying to show you that they are interested), while others are unintentional (due to nervousness).
The more of these signs she shows, the more likely it is that she has a crush on you, rather than just being a flirty or friendly person overall. Here are 47 signs to help tell if a girl likes you.
1. She laughs at your jokes
Laughing at your jokes can be a huge sign of interest (especially if you are not a particularly funny person…) If she smiles and laughs a lot around you, she may have a crush.
If you want to make a girl you like to laugh more, you may like to read this article on how to be funny (for un-funny people).
2. She mirrors you
Mirroring means that her body language, posture, or even what she’s saying reflects what you said or did. So if you take a sip of your glass, if she’s mirroring that, she’ll also take a sip of her glass. Or if you cross your legs and she does the same, that’s also mirroring.
Remember that mirroring is done subconsciously when she has a very good rapport with you. But it can also be done consciously if she wants to impress or bond with you. It’s a great sign either way.
3. She adds you on social media
This one means she wants to stay in touch and is at least a little bit interested in you. It also makes it much easier for you to take initiative by messaging or commenting on her posts.
4. She writes you long texts
Is she always giving you short answers, or is she giving you a small novel as a reply?
If her texts are about the same length or longer than yours, that’s great. It’s especially good if they’re longer than yours.
If you’re usually giving her long replies but not getting the same in return, it means you’re probably too eager. In that case, it’s often good to step back a bit and try to match her better. Give her some space, so she wants to come back to you again.
5. She teases you
Is it mean teasing or more flirty and light-hearted?
Most forms of teasing (even mean) are usually a sign she’s interested in you. I LOVE it when a girl I like tries to tease me. It means she’s trying to create a flirty vibe between you and that she wants a reaction from you. Just don’t take it too seriously and try to have fun with her!
6. She leans in toward you
If she’s leaning in toward you, that’s a sign she’s eager to get your attention or get her message across. And in the best case, it also means she’s eager to get closer to you.
7. She moves closer to you
If you’re in a conversation and you feel like she’s edging closer to you, or as if she’s almost uncomfortably too close to you, that’s a good sign. It could mean she’s attracted to you and wants to feel closer to you both physically and mentally.
Take note that different cultures have different “personal spaces.” So, if she’s from a different culture than you, it might just be because of that.
8. She bites her lips
Biting herself lightly on the lip is a flirty and cute (or sexy) signal. If she’s biting herself in the lip while you’re talking, that’s great. She’s probably into you.
9. She smiles at you
If she’s smiling toward you from afar, that’s an invitation to approach her. Or she’s flirting with you. (I’m assuming you didn’t just forget to put your pants on when leaving home).
If she’s smiling toward you when you’re in a conversation, that’s a sign she likes you. Especially if she has a light smile while you’re not even joking.
10. She licks her lips or teeth
Is she licking her lips or teeth? This is similar to biting her lips, but a bit more subtle and less flirty. Still a good sign she might like you.
11. She’s blinking more than normal
According to Blake Eastman, a body language expert, an increased blink rate can signify attraction[1], so it may be a good sign if you notice that she seems to be blinking more around you.
12. Her pupils are larger than normal
If her pupils get large when you’re in a conversation, you’re doing something right. This one is quite subtle because pupil size is primarily determined by light levels, but secondarily attraction can also increase pupil size.
13. She’s keeping eye contact for longer
If you notice that she’s holding eye contact slightly longer than normal, she’s probably trying to get your attention or make a connection with you. It’s a good sign that she’s interested in you. That kind of eye contact often feels more intense and can even be a bit weird or uncomfortable.
14. She’s gives you a light smile
Say that you’re all standing in a circle, and you two make eye contact when someone else is talking. Does she give you a slight smile? She probably likes you (or is a very kind person, which is also a good sign!)
Same thing if you make eye contact at a distance, in a park, or at a bar. A smile is like an invitation to start talking.
15. She looks at you with open body language
This sign is most useful at a place with some background music, such as a bar or a club.
If she’s moving in rhythm with the background music and at the same time looking at you, that can be a sign she’s attracted to you. Dancing like that and looking at you is an inviting form of body language. That tells you she wants your attention and is trying to get you to make a move.
16. She corrects her posture
Does she straighten her posture when she gets your attention or is close to you? That means she’s trying to make a good impression on you.
On the other hand, a more relaxed posture can mean that she feels comfortable around you, which can also be a good sign.
17. She faces you
If she’s facing you more often than she’s facing others in a group, that’s a sign she’s into you and values you more than others in the group. This is especially telling if you’re not even the one talking the most in the group.
18. Her feet point towards you
If her feet are pointing toward you, that’s a sign in the same line as if her body is facing you. She’s subconsciously focused on you, which makes her feet point toward you. It’s a sign of open body language.
19. She fiddles with or straightens her clothes, jewelry, or accessories
This could be because of nervosity, but it can also be because she wants to look good in front of you. It’s a classic sign of attraction.
20. Her palms are faced in your direction
If the palms of their hands are pointed in your direction, she might be interested in you. It’s a weak signal, but it’s still positive because it’s part of an open and welcoming body language she has toward you.
21. She touches you back
For example, if you touch her arm, does she touch you in a similar area later on in the conversation? If she does reciprocate your touch, that’s a great sign, but it also depends on if she’s touchy with most people or just you.
Keep in mind that shy girls usually don’t touch back because they’re so afraid of messing up.
22. She touches you when you talk
Common areas to touch are arms, shoulders, back, hands, or thighs. Hands or thighs are usually more intimate if she touches those. Some girls aren’t so comfortable with touch, and it takes them a while to warm up. So if she doesn’t touch you, it isn’t necessarily a sign that she doesn’t like you if she shows many other signs on the list.
23. You have “peripheral physical contact”
Peripheral physical contact is when some parts of your body are in contact with each other when you are doing something else.
For example, if you’re both sitting down and your thighs are barely touching each other. Or if you’re walking side by side and she grabs hold of your arm. That kind of passive physical contact means a lot and can build a lot of tension and attraction.
24. She’s giving you more of her attention
For example, if she directs most of her attention when you’re in a group. Or if she’s only asking you questions or if she’s laughing more than others at your jokes.
The more attention she gives you, the more interested she usually is in you.
25. She blushes
Does she blush when you talk or make eye contact? She might be shy, but she’s probably a bit self-conscious around you because she likes you.
26. She looks at you from afar
Girls are often a bit sneaky when they want to check you out. They can make it seem like they’re only looking in your direction or just grazing you with their eyes. I’ve even seen girls using window reflections to check out a guy (and to check if he’s looking at them). Sunglasses are even sneakier.
So if she’s looking in your direction, especially if she does it several times, she’s probably checking you out.
27. She keeps the conversation going
What happens when you stop talking or can’t come up with anything to say? If she seems eager to get the conversation going again, that’s good. If she excuses herself, she may not be that interested.
Click here to read my full guide on how to talk to girls.
28. She always replies
Does she always reply when you call or text?
Quicker responses are often a sign of interest. But many girls are so afraid of appearing needy that they delay their response even if they like you.
29. She texts or calls you first
If she’s often the one initiating, that’s a very strong sign she’s into you.
But if she never calls or texts first, that shows a lack of interest. In that case, it can be good to take a step back to see if she will take initiative when you don’t do it before she even has the chance.
30. She texts you often
Compare this to how often you text her. It’s the same principle as matching the length of her texts. She’s eager if she’s texting more often than you, and you’re eager if you’re the one texting more often.
31. She stammers, stutters, or forgets what she was about to say
Does she seem nervous when you guys are having a conversation? This could mean she’s a bit extra shy or self-conscious around you, which tells you that she might also be a bit extra interested in you.
32. She doesn’t back off when you get closer
If she doesn’t even flinch when you get a bit too close to her personal space, that’s a sign she wants you close to her.
If you take a step closer, and she backs off by a step, that’s a sign she’s a bit more reserved toward you.
33. She talks about future plans
Planning or mentioning things they want to do with you in the future strongly indicates some sort of interest, romantic or platonic.
For example, if you’re talking about a newly opened restaurant, they say, “We should go there someday!” or “I’ll show you how amazing that place is!” If you’re talking about art and she wants to share her work, that’s a good sign too.
34. She’s pleased with your commonalities
How does she react when she finds out that you have something in common? If she’s happy, that’s good. This sign is extra strong if it’s something very trivial, like that you live in the same part of town, you’re the same age, or you both like pizza.
35. She asks you personal questions
If she is, that’s telling you that she wants to know more about you and is interested in you. The more she asks, the better.
For example, asking about your plans for the future, your childhood, or just about your favorite food. Asking you questions is literally showing interest in you.
36. She asks about your plans
Asking about your plans for the day or weekend might just be empty small talk, but it could also be her trying to open a window where you can meet again and hang out. It’s more likely it’s a sign of interest if she brings it up near the end of the conversation.
37. She seems embarrassed if you two are the only two people left in a situation
If she does but doesn’t do anything to leave the situation, that means she’s just a bit shy but still interested.
A classic example is if you meet her with her girlfriends at a bar, and then all her friends leave, but she stays. That’s perfect because it also means her friends approve of you.
38. She tells her friends or family about you
This one is most relevant once you’ve already started dating. But it’s such a huge sign of interest (and approval) that I thought it was worth mentioning. It’s even bigger if she’s from a culture where approval from the family is important.
If she’s told her family, it means she is visualizing and planning a future with you. Congrats!
If she just told her friends, that’s also great, but not as big as her family.
39. She offers you a massage
Offering a massage is a nice thing to do, but it’s also a smooth way for a girl to get you both touching each other. (Remember to offer her one back if you like her!)
40. She reschedules when she can’t make a date
Say you were meant to meet up with her, but she cancels. How can you know if she truly couldn’t make it or if she just isn’t interested?
Life happens, and everyone has to change or cancel plans sometimes. If she tries to reschedule when she cancels, it’s a good sign she is interested in you and had to cancel for legitimate reasons.
41. She compliments you
If she gives you positive feedback, it’s a good sign she likes you. While teasing can also be a sign she likes you, some women are more prone to compliment a guy they like, and many do both.
42. She gives you small gifts
Does she pick up things for you or give you gifts or trinkets? That’s a sign that she’s thinking about you and wants to make you feel good. For example, if you’ve mentioned that you have a weakness for pastries, and she shows up with a croissant the next time you meet up, that’s a really good sign that she likes you.
43. She follows up on things you tell her
Remembering that you said you have a test coming up and asking how it went is a sign that she takes you seriously and also that she wants you to know that she listens to you and cares.
44. She lets you know she’s single
Bringing up the fact that she’s single could be a way for her to let you know that she’s available and interested.
45. She asks for your help
Asking for your help can be a way to spend more time with you and establish a connection. It can also be a way for her to check how responsive and helpful you are to get an idea of how you would behave as a romantic partner.
46. She opens up to you
Asking you questions about yourself shows that she’s interested and wants to learn more about you. Sharing things about herself is a sign that she trusts you and wants to get closer to you.
47. She has a nickname for you
Giving you a nickname can be a flirty way to show that she likes you.
Does your best friend have a crush on you?
It can be more difficult to figure out these signs if you’re already friends with someone. If you’re close friends, she probably already texts you, tells you about her life, teases you, spends time with you, and so on. How can you know if it’s just friendship or if there’s more going on?
Is she acting differently from how she usually behaves? If there’s a sudden change in her behavior towards you, it may be a sign that her feelings have changed. On the other hand, if her behavior has changed in all aspects of life, it may have nothing to do with you.
Does she seem jealous or dismissive of other girls you might like? Is she suddenly extra touchy-feely? Is she unusually interested in your interests? These changes may indicate that her feelings towards you are shifting or that she’s trying to work out what she feels.
Those are all signs your best friend might have started liking you as more than a friend.
How do you know for sure if she’s interested?
You can’t know for sure if she’s interested based on a sign on this list. But there are a few rules you can use to help you know:
- Is she regularly showing you different signs of interest?
- Does she act differently to others than to you? (So she’s not just flirty with everyone.)
- Has she shown any particularly strong signs of interest?
The only one to know for sure is to check with her. Let her know you are interested and see if the feeling is mutual.
Are you still unsure if she likes you?
Write it down in the comments below in as much detail as possible for other commenters to help you out. I’ll also respond to a few of the most interesting comments. But I can’t keep up with all the comments alone, so try to help others by answering them too. Poorly written comments with bad grammar will be deleted.
There is this girl that I know from Church. We are always back and forth teasing each other, and she always laughs at my jokes. When we are the last people in a situation she always blushes and acts embarrassed. I really thought that she liked me until recently, and now I am having doubts. Her friends keep on talking about this guy named Caleb. When they mention him, she gets really defensive, and blushes furiously. Is she still into me?
You need to tell her how you feel about her and see how she feels about you before you don’t get a chance to and she moves on to another guy.
Srry buddy. She probably did at some point, but you most likely took to long to shoot your shot, so she lost interest.
There’s a girl at my work we talk there’s always good banter between us she teases me and then I tease her. But she doesn’t talk to me around other staff . Today I saw her in store talking to another guy . It crushed me after that I had a conversation with her it went great she always laughs at anything I say and smiles. What does this mean ?
There is this shy girl she is bisexual I asked her out 2 months ago and she said yes but after she said no but after that she showed much MUCH bigger signs she likes me 5 of them on this list and she is very very touchy with me and has been teasing me almost everyday but also asking me to go to the library with her so I’m wondering if she likes me again or should I ask her out again? Pls give me help
There is this shy girl she is bisexual I asked her out 2 months ago and she said yes but after she said no but after that she showed much MUCH bigger signs she likes me 5 of them on this list and she is very very touchy with me and has been teasing me almost everyday but also asking me to go to the library with her so I’m wondering if she likes me again or should I ask her out again?
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been talking to a girl on snapchat a lot. she does some of the things on this list like responding every time, and i’m also pretty sure she started the back and forth, but there are some weird circumstances that come with that so i’m not really sure if that’s important at all.
i haven’t seen her in person on over 2 weeks or had many physical conversations with her but she seems to really open up to me about some things and care about how i’m doing whenever i show signs of maybe being depressed or upset.
help?
Okay so I work with this girl and she’s always buying me food , when she talks to me at times she touches my arm to ask me to do something , occasionally her butt touches my butt or she gets close to me , she even gave me a nickname
She has blocked me on whatsapp but talks for hours over a phone call. What does that mean ? Is she playing games with me ?
Ask her why she blocked you on the whatsapp?
So I have a crush on someone in my class and she always looks at me when I talk she has her feet face me when we talk and she gets a little bit of a mood swings when I’m around but, we just got in a class together and she laughs at my friend who has been in her class for a long time and I’m kinda scared that she is in to him and not me.
Ok so take it easy don’t tell her yet does she laugh to your jokes?
Hi there is this girl at my school and I have a feeling that she likes me but im not sure. I don’t have that many friends that are girls so I dont have much of a gauge as to whether she is just friendly. But the past few weeks she has been very friendly with me, much more than before, talking to me between classes and stuff. She also laughs at all my jokes and says stuff like “you are so funny” and copies things that I do, she has also started sitting with me in classes where she used to sit next to her friends. She also smiles and waves at me a lot, and does some of the other signs in this article, moves closer to me (like stands/sits right next to me) in group conversations etc. She is quite friendly though and I don’t want to misjudge and get into an awkward situation so I would like some help.
You need to open up to her and tell her how you feel about her..
Hi what’s up just wondering if you can tell if you get up close but nothing happens and you start talking would that happen if she likes you or be more reserved if you got a little too close to know what she was trying to say also we both go to the same classrooms we both go to two after the first one the second one when we come back I get there before her but as she comes in I notice her and stop her to say she had a hole in her upper thigh area but she just continue to walk and in the first class when she notices me looking at her she assumes im staring but actually we are in a group there’s different groups in our class but we’re in the same also I look around but when I look at her she says something she says what why do you keep looking at me but actually she means staring but not to make her feel uncomfortable but to be honest at the right moment when I look at her it’s like a feeling she might look up and notice and when she does I just kinda don’t know what to say but that I wasn’t staring at you and I say what to the others but what really concerns me is that she let me get up close not too close but let me sit next to her does that mean she likes me she has dark eyes so it is hard to tell if there dilated or not also another sign is she does put makeup when I’m in the group and when I look at her a few times I see her putting lipgloss and eye liner and looking at herself in e mirror so I think that can also be a sign I don’t know but it could be could that be sign of interest or to say she kinda sits in front of me and I think that her body position could be pointing towards me or the other person I sit next to on my left but she could be pointing kinda between us so I really don’t know but I think she might have some sorta intrest also to say the least that she does treat me differently than others but to say she also smiles maybe a way of being nice but I don’t think she does to others but when I look at her for some reason she smiles I really think this could be a sign but due to the coronavirus pandemic I still don’t know and want to find out soon enough
I found this helpful also. And nice name xD
If my friend has a dream about me and has it typed out on her phone and deletes half of because she did not want me to read part of it. Does she like me
Pretty sure
Hi, so there’s this girl I like in my university….I met her over text….I saw her one day then told her later that day over text but she complained saying she doesn’t know how I look then I sent a photo ???? so she could have an idea of how I look in case she saw me anywhere in school.
So on a particular evening I was coming back from the mall in school and saw her from afar so I was literally prepared to know what to say. So when she was close enough I called her name and she answered..she told her friend to excuse us for a minute or two….we did some small talk but all through she kept eye contact with me and smiled. So I closed off the conversation and told I’ll see her later.
Ever since then she’s more expressive and Fun to text unlike before I met her in Person
Sorry for the informal text I’m lazy????????????
Plus when I first met her stretched my hand to hold hers for a while….the at the end if the conversation I did it again and she smiled
what if my crush calls me by like a nickname based on what I’m wearing e.g army pants and making sure I hear it
She sometimes calls me other things that just get me confused and still dunno if she like me
I’m a girl and crushing big time on my martial arts instructor. We were hanging out last week just us and we got really close like I was touching her leg and she was very comfortable with that and didn’t move away. We stare at each other all the time and flirt alot. We were planning to meet up after texting everyday for a week. No she has gone really quiet like she has been online on whatsapp but hasn’t actually opened my message about meeting up… confused. I think she is scared if she feels the same way.
She has also said in the past she is really bad at messaging back.
I’m so sorry to let you down but not opening your message and being a bad texter is a tell tale signs she’s not interested.
Unrequited crushes are terrible but, don’t worry, not everything was meant to be and you’ll find someone else who likes you back and you’ll totally forget about her
So here’s the deal….
I have a small group that I have been playing outside since the 4th grade. And I have a crush on one of the girls in this group, and I want to know if she likes me back. I don’t want to ask because that will make things weird. But when Peter I talk to her, she always has good eye contact. Could this mean she likes me?
So i have known this girl since i was 5 and we’re sixteen now. I’ve moved from the school she and I attended for our junior years of high school and have went to a private school in another county. I still live in the same area, in fact the school that we both attended is literally less than a 2 minute walk from my house. She used to always playfully tease me in primary and secondary school and has often been sympathetic when i was in a tough spot. She used to always ask am i going to the school disco and said it would be great fun. But since I have aspergers syndrome i dont do very well in crowds so i often politely declined. We’ve started messaging recently on Instagram. Im not sure who initiated the first text but either way we really started to connect… And sooner or later we gave each other our phone numbers. I might as well admit that my crush really began to develop once we did so. I know exchanging phone numbers isn’t as big of a deal these days as we have apps like Instagram Facebook etc, but i kinda hoped that would give a subtle hint that i had interest in her. The only problem i have here is that she takes a while to respond to ny my messages and im like a flash when she sends me a message, i also feel like im doing most of the texting and detail in text. I’m really getting mixed signals here… What should i do or think about??? ????????
I have known a girl for about a year since I have moved. One of my friends knew her and he introduced me to her. Over quarantine I got her number and we have texted and talked on a regular basis. She has introduced me to most of her family. Due to covid I have not been able to hang out with her for some time. She is not a shy girl and has many friends, some of which are boys, yet she tends to spend for time around me. Recently she asked for a photo of me so I sent her one and she responded by saying she will never be as cool as me. I am not shy but when it comes to girls that I like I lose my confidence. What should I do?
I have never gotten a sign of interest from a woman and so have never approached anyone. There have been many women I’ve been attracted to but in the absence of any sign they’re attracted to me, I’ve always stayed away. Don’t get me wrong – I have several women friends who enjoy my company (and I theirs) but it’s always 100% platonic. They tell me how great a catch I am and that it’s just a matter of time until the right woman falls in love with me. I just laugh because I know that, at 43, never having kissed anyone, I’m doomed to be their sexually invisible male friend who will never be seen as a romantic prospect by any woman.
Ok so, I’m a girl and there’s this girl that I’ve liked and its been a year now. We’re in the same class and all. At first I thought it was gonna be those normal crushes that come and eventually go. But something changed and I’m not exactly sure when, but it could have been when she flashed me her cleavage when we were in class playing cards and she hid a card, so my friend and I jokingly told her to strip, my friend moved to the other side of the room and she just zipped her jacket down, (she was having a tank top underneath), just for me to see, literally, and I stared wayyyyy longer than I was supposed to. But that was in the beginning of this year, so somewhere in August, after my friend exposed me for never having a boyfriend, I’d catch her staring at me, and I’d hold it for as long as my heart could then I’ll pull away. She’ll be talking to my friend and me and she’ll stare and smile at me throughout the whole conversation even though I’m quiet. The eye contact increased recently, because I’d catch her staring and we’d just look at each other then I’ll break it because it would be so intense. I thought I was hallucinating but it’s become so often. My friend once called her out for staring at me.But I’m so confused because I’m not sure of her sexuality and I’m worried that I might be imagining things because I like her so much.
OMG are you me?! Lesbian problems 😉
Seriously tho. I’m in the same boat. My situation goes even deeper though except she’s married. The signs are overwhelming and have been for years but so are my feelings for her. She was my first crush. Ugh. Someone write an article for us specifically!
Recently I have been chatting to this shy, cute girl and personally I really think she has become attracted to me. Now, she often begins conversations and when I see her around school it seems like she is avoiding eye contact at all costs. She also seems somewhat comfortable when I touch her, however she doesn’t glance at me during class. Often outside of class I would love to chat with her, but I lack interesting conversation topics and she is always with her group of friends. We only really talk during our science lessons. In addition, it is coming to the end of the half term, but I don’t know/am too scared to ask for her socials or number without it seeming weird. I am also wondering how I could make her think of me outside school.
if she copy’s your writing style
she’s trying to copy you so your like wow you write just like me
I have a crush on my new classmate at my new school. She is cute, smart and polite but also shy. Recently we talk a lot and I feel like she had something on me since I compared her actions with the signs above. I want to take the initiative and ask her out for a hangout but I am too shy to do so and also because I am unsure. Should I make a move on or I should not? I am fond of her.
Go for it, as you mentioned she is shy, shy people don’t open up too often and if she feels comfortable around you there’s no way you gonna miss this one, look for a common place you both like or spend most of the time together and ask if she likes you back, let me know how it goes, best luck!!
Guess what… we aren’t friends no more. WE ARE NOW A COUPLE!!!
Go for it! Make a move.
When I was in cls 8, I saw a girl. Even I knew her before it I had a strong feeling for her. But I didn’t know what she thought about me or even she likes me or not. But I am confusing for some hints that she does. Like her friends started teasing or gossiping with her when I am near. My some friends also said that she would like me. I have been connected with her on messenger but I am the one who starts most of the conversation with her. Sometimes she continues chat but not more than 20 or 30 mins. In cls she stares me a lot but when I noticed it she turned over. I heard from her friends that she like me. She is too shy. We have also some social restrictions. So I can’t touch her or go for a date. My question is does she likes me and what should I do to make her mine?
Pls if any one knows what to do, then give me a reply as soon because I don’t want to lost her
Pls
start to talk to her. talk to her alot.
so like everytime i am at family gathering and i walk in the kitchen she always stares at me little longer like the last time i came in the kitchen i didnt close the door properly at first she was on her phone then when she saw me she was staring at me and she picked up her cup and strat drinking it while staring at me we was in full eye contact with each other but if it is my cousins she wouldnt stare at them long and next thing is when we were praying she had joined the circle and she had bent at me a little bit and smile and she walked away and when i ask her or text her she had said i had bent to see you i was fixing someone hair so this is the second time it happen and when she stares she doesnt say nothing and when i told her and keep texting her thats all she said and then she blocked me and then she unblock me so yeah thats it . but like she only gives me eye contact and when i said i needed to talk to her i didnt say what it was but i was assuming she woulda know what i was about to talk to her about
Hello. There is a girl I like, who said she thought it me as a friend a few months ago. But about a month ago she started texting me out of the blue, having gotten my phone number from a common friend. We talk multiple times everyday, but I have no idea if she is interested in me as more than a friend. Please give me advice.
She may just want something from you. If she doesn’t show any other signs of interest, then don’t do anything. When they like you romantically, there will be no doubt.
She rejected my first proposal but few months later,she followed me on instagram, likes all my post, watch all my IG story too.what does it mean?
Can u think of an incident in those few months that might have changed her feelings towards you ? Did u get a gf shortly after her rejection ? How did u react when she said no ? Calm and cool and no big deal ? Did u show her signs u were interested in her before u asked her out only to somewhat ignore her and move on after she said no ? Ideally you want to try to see what would have changed how she thinks about you. For her to start following u online and liking posts etc a few months later seems to long for it to be a ” sympathy ” thing or just trying to be nice , or girls can do this if they think your a nice guy ( friend ) . But a few months seems way to long for that. Were u posting pics on IG of u with other girls? Did u do something cool that she may have saw ? If your in school maybe there’s a pretty girl who she can tell likes you which will make her like u more .
If she wasn’t into you a few months ago there must be something that happened that changed that. have u been hanging out as friends and possibly building attraction that way ? So many variables but I don’t know the details your situation. Ask yourself ” whats different about me now to then , or whats happened in that time that could have changed how she feels “?
There is this girl I like and I thought she liked me she would secretly text when we were doing online classes and I text her back but I didnt make a move. Now, I think she lost intrest in me. She is flirty with a another guy. We still make eye contact and stuff Im confused
Sounds like u were late to pull the trigger and make a move but also sounds like its not to late . Try a Google search with something like ” texts to get a girl to re-engage ” or texts to send a girl to regain her interest ” pick out some texts that are best suited for u two . And once u get her re-engaged ask her out when u feel its the right time , not when u feel comfortable doing it but when u feel like u should. You’ll know when that is .
Hi there is this girl I like that I know from a youth organisation that she and I mentor at but I’m not sure if she like me back. She and I see each other once a week normally but due to corona virus we only talk online once a week, we message each other occasionally but she normally reply either straight away or late as she doesn’t use social media a lot, I tried dropping hints to tell her I like her by offering to help her with anything she needs and trying to organise a day to hang out alone with each other, I want to ask her out but don’t know if she is seeing anyone or if she like me back or if she thinks of me as more of a friend than a bf. She and I make each other laugh a lot and I known her for a year now and she is a friend but I want to tell her I like her and want to ask her out without ruining the friendship or make things awkward between us if she rejects me.
Thanks
P.S it would be nice for some advice
Bro ! Your doing all the classic nice guy traits that send u straight to the friend zone! Regroup and change your strategy completely! There’s way to much detail to go into on this . However , if you are seriously interested in this girl and are willing to put in some effort then watch this video and it will change your life ! Hopefully it sparks enough interest that u watch several videos like it because there is alot to cover but IT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE. Your welcome and good luck ! U can have this girl madly in love with u man. And I don’t mean tricking her into it . But once u really understand what attracts a woman your approach will completely change and so will your dating life( i.e its NOT doing favors and always being available for her , thats a good friend , not a lover) . Let me know if u try this and how it goes . Im rooting for u man!
Thanks for your feedback unfortunately I took this long to ask her out, she started seeing a guy she met at work but we decided to stay friends and that she promised me that nothing will be awkward between us and that if things don’t workout with the current guys she is dating she said she gonna think about considering dating me. I would like to add that she is about 9 months older than me
There’s this girl and she is always playing with my friends she likes to hug everyone and she is always happy to see my friends but she doesn’t do that to me we are work friends we don’t talk much too