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79%
Report an increase in self-confidence
80%
Report improvement in their social anxiety
According to a survey of 819 SocialSelf members. Actor portrayal.
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Essentials
Our most popular programs — the best place to start for most people
Best for Conversation Skills
Conversation Confidence
Know what to say and say it with confidence
- Know what to say so you don’t blank out
- Talk to anyone — even people you’re attracted to
- Break through shallow small talk to build real connections
Best for Friendship
Fast Friend Protocol
Build connections faster with anyone you meet
- Know exactly what to say to move friendships forward
- Have engaging conversations even when you have no clue what to talk about
- Make close friends without having to be vulnerable
Best for Confidence
Self-Conscious to Confident
Crush your social nervousness and build deep core confidence
- Overcome your social anxiety
- Develop self-confidence and self-esteem
- Feel more confident in groups and new situations
Best for Career
Career Confidence
Feel more comfortable and respected at work
- Speak up more confidently in meetings and conversations
- Stop overthinking how you come across professionally
- Build stronger workplace relationships naturally
Conversation Skills
Learn what to say, how to say it, and never run out of things to talk about
Group Conversation Mastery
Stop feeling invisible in group conversations
- Know when and how to jump into conversations naturally
- Stop getting stuck overthinking when to speak
- Feel more comfortable contributing in groups
Awkward to Awesome
Crush your awkwardness and know what to do in social settings
- No longer let awkwardness hold you back
- Know what’s expected of you and how to act in social settings
- Get past the awkward initial stage so you can express your personality
Conversation Confidence
Know what to say and say it with confidence
- Know what to say so you don’t blank out
- Talk to anyone — even people you’re attracted to
- Break through shallow small talk to build real connections
Invisible to Interesting
Become a captivating person no longer held back by self-doubt
- Make conversation in a captivating way — no need for spectacular topics
- Break out of old conditioning from parents and bullies
- Talk with anyone, whether it’s someone you’re attracted to or a group
Confidence
Build unshakable inner confidence and stop second-guessing yourself
Self-Conscious to Confident
Crush your social nervousness and build deep core confidence
- Overcome your social anxiety
- Develop self-confidence and self-esteem
- Change the way you talk to yourself
Quiet to Confident: Deep Transformation
Overcoming overthinking & social paralysis
- Break free from overthinking and mental replay loops
- Speak up without waiting for the “perfect” thing to say
- Build genuine confidence while staying true to your quiet nature
Authentic Woman
Overcoming people-pleasing & building authentic confidence
- Break free from people-pleasing patterns and the need for approval
- Set boundaries without guilt or second-guessing yourself
- Build authentic confidence that doesn’t disappear when someone is disappointed
Career Confidence
Feel more comfortable and respected at work
- Speak up more confidently in meetings and conversations
- Stop overthinking how you come across professionally
- Build stronger workplace relationships naturally
Friendships
Make new friends, deepen existing connections, and become someone people want around
Deepen Your Friendships
Build stronger and more meaningful friendships
- Build deeper, more meaningful connections with the people around you
- Navigate friendship challenges with confidence
- Create lasting bonds that go beyond surface-level socializing
Likability Hacking
Become a more likable person and a friend magnet
- Learn the likability factors that make someone a friend magnet
- Make a great first impression
- Know what to say that makes people appreciate you and want to stick around
Fast Friend Protocol
Build connections faster with anyone you meet
- Know exactly what to say to move friendships forward
- Have engaging conversations even when you have no clue what to talk about
- Make close friends without having to be vulnerable
Being Real: Connecting Without Pretending
Build genuine connections by being more real
- Stop overthinking how you come across
- Express your thoughts naturally instead of staying stuck in your head
- Build deeper connections without forcing conversation or “performing”
Dating & Attraction
Build genuine dating confidence and create authentic romantic connections
Authentic Attraction
Dating confidence & authentic connection
- Talk to women with confidence while staying authentic to who you are
- Build attraction naturally through connection, confidence, and social awareness
- Handle rejection without losing momentum or doubting yourself
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Conversation Confidence |
Fast Friend Protocol |
Self-Conscious to Confident |
Group Conversation Mastery |
Awkward to Awesome |
Invisible to Interesting |
Quiet to Confident |
Authentic Woman |
Career Confidence |
Deepen Your Friendships |
Likability Hacking |
Being Real |
Authentic Attraction |
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| Focus | Make conversation with confidence and know what to say | Build connections faster with anyone you meet | Crush social anxiety through inner work | Stop feeling invisible in group conversations | Know what to do and say to stop feeling awkward | Become a captivating person no longer held back by self-doubt | Break free from overthinking and social paralysis | Overcoming people-pleasing & building authentic confidence | Feel more comfortable and respected at work | Build stronger and more meaningful friendships | Become a more likable person | Build genuine connections by being more real | Dating confidence & authentic connection |
| Scope | 5-10 min/day · 5 weeks | 5-10 min/day · 5 weeks | 5-10 min/day · 8 weeks | 5-10 min/day | 5-10 min/day · 4 weeks | 5-10 min/day · 5 weeks | 5-10 min/day | 5-10 min/day | 5-10 min/day | 5-10 min/day · 5 weeks | 5-10 min/day · 10 weeks | 5-10 min/day | 5-10 min/day |
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| Improve Conversation Skills | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Build Confidence | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Enhance Social Interactions | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Overcome Social Anxiety | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Build Deeper Connections | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Become More Interesting | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Build Self-Esteem | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Master First Impressions | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Dating Confidence | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Relationship Confidence | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Finding Genuine Friendship | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Meaningful Conversations | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
| Workplace Confidence | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ | ★★★★★ |
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