How do you know if a girl likes you or even has a crush on you? These days, it can be quite difficult to know. She may be acting friendly, but what if she’s friendly towards everyone? Is she flirting, or are you imagining it?
Some women are more outgoing than others, so they may seem like they’re flirting even when they’re not. And some are shy, so they may seem withdrawn and uninterested even if they have a huge crush! It can be pretty hard to figure out, which is why we wrote this guide.
Sections
- Signs she likes you
- Does your best friend have a crush on you?
- How can you know for sure if a girl likes you?
47 signs she likes you
Unless a girl tells you outright that she likes you, you will have to try to understand by her context clues. When we have a crush on someone, there are usually changes in behavior around that person. Some changes are intentional (if they’re trying to show you that they are interested), while others are unintentional (due to nervousness).
The more of these signs she shows, the more likely it is that she has a crush on you, rather than just being a flirty or friendly person overall. Here are 47 signs to help tell if a girl likes you.
1. She laughs at your jokes
Laughing at your jokes can be a huge sign of interest (especially if you are not a particularly funny person…) If she smiles and laughs a lot around you, she may have a crush.
If you want to make a girl you like to laugh more, you may like to read this article on how to be funny (for un-funny people).
2. She mirrors you
Mirroring means that her body language, posture, or even what she’s saying reflects what you said or did. So if you take a sip of your glass, if she’s mirroring that, she’ll also take a sip of her glass. Or if you cross your legs and she does the same, that’s also mirroring.
Remember that mirroring is done subconsciously when she has a very good rapport with you. But it can also be done consciously if she wants to impress or bond with you. It’s a great sign either way.
3. She adds you on social media
This one means she wants to stay in touch and is at least a little bit interested in you. It also makes it much easier for you to take initiative by messaging or commenting on her posts.
4. She writes you long texts
Is she always giving you short answers, or is she giving you a small novel as a reply?
If her texts are about the same length or longer than yours, that’s great. It’s especially good if they’re longer than yours.
If you’re usually giving her long replies but not getting the same in return, it means you’re probably too eager. In that case, it’s often good to step back a bit and try to match her better. Give her some space, so she wants to come back to you again.
5. She teases you
Is it mean teasing or more flirty and light-hearted?
Most forms of teasing (even mean) are usually a sign she’s interested in you. I LOVE it when a girl I like tries to tease me. It means she’s trying to create a flirty vibe between you and that she wants a reaction from you. Just don’t take it too seriously and try to have fun with her!
6. She leans in toward you
If she’s leaning in toward you, that’s a sign she’s eager to get your attention or get her message across. And in the best case, it also means she’s eager to get closer to you.
7. She moves closer to you
If you’re in a conversation and you feel like she’s edging closer to you, or as if she’s almost uncomfortably too close to you, that’s a good sign. It could mean she’s attracted to you and wants to feel closer to you both physically and mentally.
Take note that different cultures have different “personal spaces.” So, if she’s from a different culture than you, it might just be because of that.
8. She bites her lips
Biting herself lightly on the lip is a flirty and cute (or sexy) signal. If she’s biting herself in the lip while you’re talking, that’s great. She’s probably into you.
9. She smiles at you
If she’s smiling toward you from afar, that’s an invitation to approach her. Or she’s flirting with you. (I’m assuming you didn’t just forget to put your pants on when leaving home).
If she’s smiling toward you when you’re in a conversation, that’s a sign she likes you. Especially if she has a light smile while you’re not even joking.
10. She licks her lips or teeth
Is she licking her lips or teeth? This is similar to biting her lips, but a bit more subtle and less flirty. Still a good sign she might like you.
11. She’s blinking more than normal
According to Blake Eastman, a body language expert, an increased blink rate can signify attraction[1], so it may be a good sign if you notice that she seems to be blinking more around you.
12. Her pupils are larger than normal
If her pupils get large when you’re in a conversation, you’re doing something right. This one is quite subtle because pupil size is primarily determined by light levels, but secondarily attraction can also increase pupil size.
13. She’s keeping eye contact for longer
If you notice that she’s holding eye contact slightly longer than normal, she’s probably trying to get your attention or make a connection with you. It’s a good sign that she’s interested in you. That kind of eye contact often feels more intense and can even be a bit weird or uncomfortable.
14. She’s gives you a light smile
Say that you’re all standing in a circle, and you two make eye contact when someone else is talking. Does she give you a slight smile? She probably likes you (or is a very kind person, which is also a good sign!)
Same thing if you make eye contact at a distance, in a park, or at a bar. A smile is like an invitation to start talking.
15. She looks at you with open body language
This sign is most useful at a place with some background music, such as a bar or a club.
If she’s moving in rhythm with the background music and at the same time looking at you, that can be a sign she’s attracted to you. Dancing like that and looking at you is an inviting form of body language. That tells you she wants your attention and is trying to get you to make a move.
16. She corrects her posture
Does she straighten her posture when she gets your attention or is close to you? That means she’s trying to make a good impression on you.
On the other hand, a more relaxed posture can mean that she feels comfortable around you, which can also be a good sign.
17. She faces you
If she’s facing you more often than she’s facing others in a group, that’s a sign she’s into you and values you more than others in the group. This is especially telling if you’re not even the one talking the most in the group.
18. Her feet point towards you
If her feet are pointing toward you, that’s a sign in the same line as if her body is facing you. She’s subconsciously focused on you, which makes her feet point toward you. It’s a sign of open body language.
19. She fiddles with or straightens her clothes, jewelry, or accessories
This could be because of nervosity, but it can also be because she wants to look good in front of you. It’s a classic sign of attraction.
20. Her palms are faced in your direction
If the palms of their hands are pointed in your direction, she might be interested in you. It’s a weak signal, but it’s still positive because it’s part of an open and welcoming body language she has toward you.
21. She touches you back
For example, if you touch her arm, does she touch you in a similar area later on in the conversation? If she does reciprocate your touch, that’s a great sign, but it also depends on if she’s touchy with most people or just you.
Keep in mind that shy girls usually don’t touch back because they’re so afraid of messing up.
22. She touches you when you talk
Common areas to touch are arms, shoulders, back, hands, or thighs. Hands or thighs are usually more intimate if she touches those. Some girls aren’t so comfortable with touch, and it takes them a while to warm up. So if she doesn’t touch you, it isn’t necessarily a sign that she doesn’t like you if she shows many other signs on the list.
23. You have “peripheral physical contact”
Peripheral physical contact is when some parts of your body are in contact with each other when you are doing something else.
For example, if you’re both sitting down and your thighs are barely touching each other. Or if you’re walking side by side and she grabs hold of your arm. That kind of passive physical contact means a lot and can build a lot of tension and attraction.
24. She’s giving you more of her attention
For example, if she directs most of her attention when you’re in a group. Or if she’s only asking you questions or if she’s laughing more than others at your jokes.
The more attention she gives you, the more interested she usually is in you.
25. She blushes
Does she blush when you talk or make eye contact? She might be shy, but she’s probably a bit self-conscious around you because she likes you.
26. She looks at you from afar
Girls are often a bit sneaky when they want to check you out. They can make it seem like they’re only looking in your direction or just grazing you with their eyes. I’ve even seen girls using window reflections to check out a guy (and to check if he’s looking at them). Sunglasses are even sneakier.
So if she’s looking in your direction, especially if she does it several times, she’s probably checking you out.
27. She keeps the conversation going
What happens when you stop talking or can’t come up with anything to say? If she seems eager to get the conversation going again, that’s good. If she excuses herself, she may not be that interested.
Click here to read my full guide on how to talk to girls.
28. She always replies
Does she always reply when you call or text?
Quicker responses are often a sign of interest. But many girls are so afraid of appearing needy that they delay their response even if they like you.
29. She texts or calls you first
If she’s often the one initiating, that’s a very strong sign she’s into you.
But if she never calls or texts first, that shows a lack of interest. In that case, it can be good to take a step back to see if she will take initiative when you don’t do it before she even has the chance.
30. She texts you often
Compare this to how often you text her. It’s the same principle as matching the length of her texts. She’s eager if she’s texting more often than you, and you’re eager if you’re the one texting more often.
31. She stammers, stutters, or forgets what she was about to say
Does she seem nervous when you guys are having a conversation? This could mean she’s a bit extra shy or self-conscious around you, which tells you that she might also be a bit extra interested in you.
32. She doesn’t back off when you get closer
If she doesn’t even flinch when you get a bit too close to her personal space, that’s a sign she wants you close to her.
If you take a step closer, and she backs off by a step, that’s a sign she’s a bit more reserved toward you.
33. She talks about future plans
Planning or mentioning things they want to do with you in the future strongly indicates some sort of interest, romantic or platonic.
For example, if you’re talking about a newly opened restaurant, they say, “We should go there someday!” or “I’ll show you how amazing that place is!” If you’re talking about art and she wants to share her work, that’s a good sign too.
34. She’s pleased with your commonalities
How does she react when she finds out that you have something in common? If she’s happy, that’s good. This sign is extra strong if it’s something very trivial, like that you live in the same part of town, you’re the same age, or you both like pizza.
35. She asks you personal questions
If she is, that’s telling you that she wants to know more about you and is interested in you. The more she asks, the better.
For example, asking about your plans for the future, your childhood, or just about your favorite food. Asking you questions is literally showing interest in you.
36. She asks about your plans
Asking about your plans for the day or weekend might just be empty small talk, but it could also be her trying to open a window where you can meet again and hang out. It’s more likely it’s a sign of interest if she brings it up near the end of the conversation.
37. She seems embarrassed if you two are the only two people left in a situation
If she does but doesn’t do anything to leave the situation, that means she’s just a bit shy but still interested.
A classic example is if you meet her with her girlfriends at a bar, and then all her friends leave, but she stays. That’s perfect because it also means her friends approve of you.
38. She tells her friends or family about you
This one is most relevant once you’ve already started dating. But it’s such a huge sign of interest (and approval) that I thought it was worth mentioning. It’s even bigger if she’s from a culture where approval from the family is important.
If she’s told her family, it means she is visualizing and planning a future with you. Congrats!
If she just told her friends, that’s also great, but not as big as her family.
39. She offers you a massage
Offering a massage is a nice thing to do, but it’s also a smooth way for a girl to get you both touching each other. (Remember to offer her one back if you like her!)
40. She reschedules when she can’t make a date
Say you were meant to meet up with her, but she cancels. How can you know if she truly couldn’t make it or if she just isn’t interested?
Life happens, and everyone has to change or cancel plans sometimes. If she tries to reschedule when she cancels, it’s a good sign she is interested in you and had to cancel for legitimate reasons.
41. She compliments you
If she gives you positive feedback, it’s a good sign she likes you. While teasing can also be a sign she likes you, some women are more prone to compliment a guy they like, and many do both.
42. She gives you small gifts
Does she pick up things for you or give you gifts or trinkets? That’s a sign that she’s thinking about you and wants to make you feel good. For example, if you’ve mentioned that you have a weakness for pastries, and she shows up with a croissant the next time you meet up, that’s a really good sign that she likes you.
43. She follows up on things you tell her
Remembering that you said you have a test coming up and asking how it went is a sign that she takes you seriously and also that she wants you to know that she listens to you and cares.
44. She lets you know she’s single
Bringing up the fact that she’s single could be a way for her to let you know that she’s available and interested.
45. She asks for your help
Asking for your help can be a way to spend more time with you and establish a connection. It can also be a way for her to check how responsive and helpful you are to get an idea of how you would behave as a romantic partner.
46. She opens up to you
Asking you questions about yourself shows that she’s interested and wants to learn more about you. Sharing things about herself is a sign that she trusts you and wants to get closer to you.
47. She has a nickname for you
Giving you a nickname can be a flirty way to show that she likes you.
Does your best friend have a crush on you?
It can be more difficult to figure out these signs if you’re already friends with someone. If you’re close friends, she probably already texts you, tells you about her life, teases you, spends time with you, and so on. How can you know if it’s just friendship or if there’s more going on?
Is she acting differently from how she usually behaves? If there’s a sudden change in her behavior towards you, it may be a sign that her feelings have changed. On the other hand, if her behavior has changed in all aspects of life, it may have nothing to do with you.
Does she seem jealous or dismissive of other girls you might like? Is she suddenly extra touchy-feely? Is she unusually interested in your interests? These changes may indicate that her feelings towards you are shifting or that she’s trying to work out what she feels.
Those are all signs your best friend might have started liking you as more than a friend.
How do you know for sure if she’s interested?
You can’t know for sure if she’s interested based on a sign on this list. But there are a few rules you can use to help you know:
- Is she regularly showing you different signs of interest?
- Does she act differently to others than to you? (So she’s not just flirty with everyone.)
- Has she shown any particularly strong signs of interest?
The only one to know for sure is to check with her. Let her know you are interested and see if the feeling is mutual.
Are you still unsure if she likes you?
Write it down in the comments below in as much detail as possible for other commenters to help you out. I’ll also respond to a few of the most interesting comments. But I can’t keep up with all the comments alone, so try to help others by answering them too. Poorly written comments with bad grammar will be deleted.
Hi yeah I have got this crush on this girl and she knows that I like her and her friends also know. And she has made fun of my feelings for her. And she has also looked at me. So can you tell me what you think. And can you tell me where I could go next like with any steps.
I think you’re gonna need to give me a little more info to process this; she made fun of your feelings? Welp, this in mind, she could very well like you back, but she’s shy. Although, she could also very well not like you.
She has also called me a lovely specimen before and she said she has called other people it but she hasn’t.
I would just ask her and then if you get rejected ask to still be freinds is what i did with my freind and it woorked out pretty good we are still friends
I never get signals from any woman because no woman could be interested in me. As such I don’t bother looking for signals – why waste time looking for something that is not there. When a woman looks at me it’s invariably because of how unattractive I am – not the other way round.
Paul think possitive not negitive
I’m being realistic – women are interested in attractive guys, not me. I don’t show interest in women because doing so would be guaranteed to produce negative results (women would be offended / walk away, etc.). For me to try with a faint hope of a woman becoming interested in me would be self delusional.
I understand you feel this way about yourself, but why tell us? Many people try and fail, but that’s life. So if you’re not gonna try, you’re not gonna fail, is that it? Would this strategy even benefit anyone? I mean, what’s there to lose? A person you’ll probably never see again? Come on, failing isn’t the end. To be able to get up and try again with all your effort is the real power, no matter how many times you fall. Starting small is key though, don’t push it.
i know where you’re coming from, pal. I’m the same. Even when I try i get nowhere. it’s a bugger to know what to do. I associate with a lot of the symptoms, these sessions list, but can’t seem to find a way to beat them. I try yo follow the advice, but when it seems to have no effect, it seems a waste of effort.
yeah i tried these and failed she hit me in the face and i had to go to the hospital
oof
Sorry braxton at least you tryed 🙂
I met my ex my senior year of highschool, we broke up a year later but we started talking about 2 years after the break up, we went on a date and kissed. During that time she had a kid which was alright with me, I ain’t afraid of that kind of commitment. Well, with covid stressing everyone out and her family being toxic, we broke up, and I ended up moving to Michigan (with plans to move back south). We’ve talked on and off over the past year, bur lately something seems off. Her responses to me don’t seem dry as they were a couple months ago, and she messaged first and a week later I messaged first and we’ve been talking pretty consistently since then. I made her laugh a little, she told me what was going on, I made a bit of flirty joke and she mentioned I was far away like she was disappointed, I said I could be closer and she asks when I’m moving back. I tell her my target date, and I said I had to go, she calls me a butt, and I tease her back. and later on she starts sending me pictures of her new haircut, she calls me cute and I tell her she’s as pretty as ever, responds thanks with a smiling blush emoji, I flirt with her a bit and she brings up that I’m all the way over there like she’s disappointed or just teasing me. I flirt a little bit again and tell her I’ll be close again soon and flirt with her again (she hurt her leg so I said something about massaging it for her and I’d bring the baby oil, which she likes a baby oil massage) and I end it with only if you’d have me though. She laugh and says she’ll think about, and today she tells me what’s going on without me having to ask, after making her laugh more. I know she’s still a bit cautious, she always has been with guys, but she seems to be comfortable with me. I don’t want to come out and ask her, nor do I really want to rush things. Am I just overthinking all of this? I still have feelings for her and would definitely like to try again…
Sooo, we go to a church thing right every Sunday night. She’s friends with my aunt, and we got into the car to go to taco bell(we were in separate cars) and she told my aunt she thought I was cute and wanted to tell me but didn’t want it to be awkward. Then she brought up dating! But didn’t mention me…Am I just paranoid because I don’t know if she for sure likes me or not?? I like her a lot, but am not too good at showing it, Any tips? And do you think she’s interested in me or she just thought I was cute?
Hi James, it sounds like she is a bit shy, and doesn’t want to accidentally make the friendship awkward. It sounds like she is into you. Especially if she brought it up to your Aunt, however if your Aunt brought it up, she could just be being nice. However, I hope it all works out, and I wish ya the best of luck!
I’m getting mixed signals and it’s the WORST!!! It’s so confusing. There seemed to be this “weird” and very unexpected connection between us last summer. I caught her looking at me and then when our eyes met, it felt like electricity went through me.
Now, we still see each other about once a week in this same public place that we frequent. We have chatted. She smiles at me and holds my gaze. She leans inward to me (away from others in the group). She asks questions. Now, the confusing part…she gave me her number and I gave her mine. We were supposed to meet for coffee (as in hopefully strike up a friendship). I waited about 4-5 days, and then I initiated a text. She never replied. When I saw her again, she was very nervous around me, but the environment was not right to ask if she received my text. So, drab.
Any thoughts…should I just leave it alone or should I try to communicate openly and honestly with her when the setting allows? I don’t want to make her uncomfortable, but I also do not like unsettled feelings.
A month after I meet this girl, she posted on her WhatsApp status that she has a crush. Is it possible she’s referring to me.
So I like my best friends sister, and I don’t know if she likes me back or not, but she’s already said that she doesn’t want a relationship until after high school. Anyway, here’s the details. She’s always asking me if I want to watch Grey’s Anatomy, or other shows, although it’s with her family as well, and we don’t really sit next to each other. During steamy scenes while watching tv, she’ll quickly look at me, blush and look away. She typically laughs at my jokes, not exactly the unfunny ones, but she does laugh more than the others. When she asks if I’m spending the night, and I say yes, she does a slight smile, and fixes her hair, and says okay, if I say no, she says okay, and looks down at the ground. She’s always asking if I can play cards against humanity with her, her best friend, and brother, and she always blushes when I put a sexual answer, but not when anyone else puts one. She invited me over for her birthday, but she didn’t invite any of her brothers other friends, and it wasn’t even a party, we only watched a movie, and ordered a few movies. She always texts me if she’s had a bad day. She sends me songs that she listens to. She’s asked me about things I’m interested in, but I don’t think she pursues them. On a few occasions she has asked me what I wanted for dinner and has made it. She has asked me to help her make breakfast. She has talked about how she likes smart guys, and my friends/family/teachers have called me smart. And I have seen her staring at me from across the room before. However, we don’t really text a lot, unless it’s about homework or her having a bad day, which I think is weird is because she’s the one that added me on Snapchat. We also don’t really touch, except for her helping me put my hair into a man bun, because I can’t really do it good by my self. She did ask me if I thought her bikini looked good on her. So I don’t know if she likes me, and she’s just shy, and that’s why we don’t really call/text and also why we don’t really touch, or if she looks at me more like a brother cause we’ve known each other for five years. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
So there’s this girl and we always be falling asleep on FaceTime with each other and she always is sending me these emojis ❤️,????,???? when I compliment her but when I ask if we can start like talking talking she changes the conversation I need some advice please help
Sounds like you might both be young.
Clearly she is comfortable with you.
Although is difficult to gauge if she is romantically intrested.
Does she show intrest in what you have to say? Or does she do all the talking.
Does she see you in person also?
Maybe she is avoiding the topic.
Maybe just tell her and then you will know.
In this situation it does mean you are allowed to still be talking to other girls.
You probably should be.
Is not good to be putting all your eggs in one basket.
Speak to other girls if u can and enjoy it.
If she is intrested she may say something,or appear jealous.
If she says nothing or says she is not intrested, it wont be as disappointing because you already looking at other options.
If you play the game respecfully you can come back to her later.
This girl i like keeps coming up to me and goes to ask me a question then sais she forgot the question. But im not sure if she likes me. We’ve known eachother scence 1st grade.
I *never* get approach signals from any woman and as such I make a point of never expressing romantic/sexual interest in women I find attractive. I have many women friends – but, at 36, I’ve never kissed or been on a date. My friends tell me I need to put myself out there, approach women I’m attracted to, talk to them and ask them out. To me, since there are never signals, it’s clear the outcome will always be negative, and therefore there’s no point in trying.
@Paul…
Straight up, it sounds as though you have created a very negative self-fulfilling prophecy. Perhaps, you had some bad experiences when you were a bit younger and/or your personality may influence it.
I am a woman though, and I can tell you that, if you put out there what you put out in your comment, a woman will pick up on that in a heart beat. She may be interested in you or find you attractive, BUT that interest/attraction will instantly fizzle when you talk or exude that fear and negativity about yourself.
Try to change your viewpoint …quit saying that women never look at me or it will always end badly…never and always are very extreme, black and white ways of seeing things.
Start with baby steps…first say to yourself something positive before attempting to meet someone…I hope to meet a nice woman and have a light and relaxed conversation, but if that does not happen it will be okay and I will try again next time. THEN, put yourself out there for having just a friendly conversation. Next time, try something a little more if there is interests…try a flirty comment or a longer than normal gaze with her, etc.
I hope you can view yourself in a more positive life one day; otherwise, you will continue to get back what you are currently putting out there. Best wishes.
Hello BlahBlah, thank you for your reply. I’ve been told that unless a woman makes it clear that she’s interested in me romantically, it would be inappropriate (creepy / offensive) for me to show that sort of interest in her. Since women never give me signs, I don’t show my romantic interest in them either. As I said, I have several women friends, so can clearly attract women in a platonic way, but it’s clear I don’t have whatever it takes for a woman to be interested in me romantically/sexually.
i will like my crush to like me like that
This is also a “brief explanation” a little bit I could add but chose not too
She invited my to a class she loves… I attended, waiting patiently outside for the other class to finish. All of a sudden she turns up and said “you made it” – walks towards me and gives me a close hug. After class finishes, she asked if I will attend this class every week? I said I’ll think about it.
She’s also invited me to another class… HOT YOGA??? What do you think? She has a boyfriend and talks about him alot…
just ask her out and if she has a bf just say you forgot and apologies
If a girl leans in or touches you it usually means she is interested….good luck!
I met a girl through dating App and met up with at lunch talked for about two hours, we left she gave me a hug and left into her car. She sends me her phone number through the dating app that night. I was going to church the following day and texted to her you are welcome to join me. She texts back thank you for offer of church, but maybe another time.
Does she mean she is not interested in me at all or just not ready to go to church with me at this early stage? Is she blowing me off? Should I text her in a few days and ask on a real date but no Church?
Thanks
it is a and when did you meat her? early stage or she has somthing to do
I am a woman who is in love with my best friend who is also a woman. We have know each other for 2 years and she has been in and out of relationships, meanwhile I’ve been single and the one she cry’s to after a break up. Everyone around us thinks that we are a couple, we have a very close relationship and all the signs have been there. I haven’t made a physical move on her bc I respect her and don’t want to push her away, I tried to tell her how I feel and she replied that she’s not sexually attracted to me. But her body language, jealousy and flirting says otherwise, she’s a tease it’s almost like she wants me to want her and likes the emotional connection that we have but doesn’t want to ruin the friendship. I’m confused bc we really bring out the best in each other, and I just don’t believe that she feels nothing for me. I’m not sure what else to do, should I just wait it out?
Hi! I am a woman who fancies other women too! I am not in your exact situation, but I can totally relate to the misery of mixed signals. The two things that came to my mind are:
1.) She is not being that great of a friend by capitalizing on your feelings and getting her ego/insecurities stroked by you. In other words, she just likes/needs the attention you are willing to give, but she does not really want to be in a same-sex relationship (which you need to err on the side of caution and believe her when she tells you that).
2.) She may very well have feelings for you, but she may be struggling with something as hard as admitting she is bi or gay. Problem is … you cannot force her to figure that out. Pressuring her will only end badly for you both in the long run (even if she were to have sex with you or try to date you). She needs to figure it out on her own…then you can trust that her interests in you in genuine – IF she does decide to engage with you.
Over all, I would suggest backing off and setting better boundaries for yourself. It sounds like you are headed for heartache and let down in your current situation due to how you are handling things. <3 <3
I really like this chick we’ve been good friends for a long time, until recently around 3 months ago we started hanging out more/making plans but we never use the friend word on eachother. I catch her looking at me all the time, laughing at my jokes, showing interest in convo, always relating to me trying to one up, playfully touching me, telling me I smell good, keeping eye contact, giving me puppy eyes leaning in, asking questions, blushing when I do certain things to make her smile, I even catch her getting jealous sometimes or it could just be me but i’ve slipped and called her dude or bro on accident and her attitude completely changes before she’s normal again. But when we aren’t together i feel a disconnect like im limited and she doesn’t text as much sometimes, but I always find a way to bring it back, in person it’s magic, I just don’t want to lose what we have and don’t know how to keep it up without seeming desperate cause I don’t know if she is into me I could bet that she is but sometimes it feels like she isn’t and I want to respect her boundaries cause that’s love right? Do I have enough hints to go in for the kill? So much has happened it’s hard to tell if she really wants this. What are the odds i lose her or make her mine
I Think she likes me this helped a lot
like she is always laughing No matter what where deling together is that sole thing? And she is always trying to be alone with med is that a sign?
So there’s this girl which I really like, I had feelings for her for about 2 years now and it’s already became an open secret that which she also knew about it. When I talk to her she gives me cold responses like “have you watched the latest episode of AOT?” Then she would answer my question and go back to her phone, it kinda hurts when she does that but at the same time whenever when we are in a group her body is directed at mine, when I talk to her she would hide her face with her hands and sometimes act cute but it most times she gives me responses with irritation I think, I don’t know. Is she interested in me? Or not?
i have been in to her for a pretty long time now. And she is always laughing at the things i say she also often tries to be alone with me
It’s also long distance I forgot
I like this girl from a place I go every summer for two months. I have nown her for so long and I like her. I have been texting a lot to her but she doesn’t always reply. She just finished exams and I’m not sure if that’s what’s affecting it. One thing I see is that she does some things beside me that she wouldn’t do around other people so that may be a sign she like me but I am not sure.
I’ve worked with someone for a few years. Over the last year we’ve become close. We text every day but only get to see each other once or twice a week. When we see each other we are always laughing and talk comes effortlessly. I’ve also noticed that the last few times we’ve been together she started standing and sitting really close to me so that we’re touching. And every time she hands me something her hand touches mine. I notice a lot of the things on this list like most of our coworkers have said something to me about us being a couple. The biggest confusion is she lives with her boyfriend but she keeps talking to me and other people about how bad things are and how she’s going to leave him soon. Is she just looking for attention or is there something more going on?
It seems that she might be trying to get you reassured that she will be available to you sometime soon, I dunno, but you should just wait a bit more and see if this is because of some experience or not.
I and my girlfriend hve been dating for like 3months and the first two months was great the fire btwn us was un-quenchable but recently it seems shes no longer in to me she doesn’t call or texts as often as she used to and im kinda frustrated cuz she rarely reply my texts and barely returns my call i don’t know what to do anymore
She’s probably losing intrest and/or some kind of event happend in her life, but I think you should try to get her to go with you somewhere casual, like to get a cup of coffee or something.
Well this girl I like has done most of these things but im not sure how she feels about me because she is late 20s and I am early 40s. she wants my attention I know that. she asks me to come see her at work. she hugs me a lot. she’s asked me to have dinner with her. we have hung out a few times. I asked her to dinner one time and she never replied. I let it go because I figured maybe she was just busy with her college work. waited a week and asked her again…nothing. so it seems she wants to be the one to set boundaries on where we go so not even sure if she’s worth the time. can you say friend zone ehhhh lol oh well. at least I tried asking her out though. her actions basically told me to walk away from trying for anything more. ill be her friend I guess but F it im moving on.
she is a flirt move on
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So the girl that I am not sure if she like me does basically all the things above but she calls me her best friend. What does that mean?
friend zoned. ask her out. the only way you’re gonna know is you have to ask her out. if she shows all the signs or many of them she’s at least showing interest. if you don’t ask her out she will most likely lose interest fast and move on. you’ll definitely notice when her frequency of doing these signs slows down.
im in similar situation. girl I like shows many of same signs. hugs me a lot, when a song she likes comes on she sings to me and dances, she leans into my personal space all the time, mirrors my actions, stares at me from afar, etc…. much more. we used to actually text a lot. mornings and night but that frequency has slowed down. she says she doesn’t reply to texts as much as snapchat but she’s yet to add me on that. so who knows.
but for you just ask the girl out. worse she can say is no. just tell her you feel you noticed signs. its hard to do sometimes because you get afraid you’ll ruin a good thing but all you’re doing is making it worse for yourself. some girls do not want to chase men. they want to be chased and if you wait too long you’ll miss out. ask her out man. something simple like for coffee or lunch. make it simple and not so intimate. a lunch date is perfect. you two can talk more and just enjoy each others company. dinner becomes more romantic and she might not be ready for that yet. I mean by all means go for it but if you’re not sure just try for lunch OR many an early dinner..
Girls can be weird at times haha i day they like yah and the nxt they avoid you
they are practically a maze
she askedfor your snapchat mabye she likes you given to the fact that she’d onLy seen you in your zoom sessions, but thing is, you’re still young kiddo. focus on your studies first, aight?
So is she asking how about you a good sighn after she answers?
Hi i told a girl that i like her and she said that i was a really nice guy and all but she wanted to get to know more about me please help me!!!