How to Double Your Confidence in 5 Minutes
In our course “How to Talk to People & Make Friends With Them“, you’ll learn how to talk to people and connect with them—even if you don’t know what to say or get stuck in endless small talk.
How will you use what you learned in this video clip? Share in the comments below! If someone writes something you agree with, let them know you have their support!
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I’m very much appreciate it, thanks ???? it works and now I’m able to make contacts with people .
I have trouble with all the small talk. I have a problem staying focused on things that are frivolous. What can I do to focus more?
But I tried this , its didn’t work
None of them talk to me for long
Because I am not talkative but I am talkative in my house
Julie, I’m not talkative either. I’ve learned it’s safer to just be quite.
It’s a really nice video demonstration which I’m about to experiment. Thanks a lot.
Waal. I liked this introductory video. It’s so helpful, interesting and brief. Not boring to watch. Thank you!
Very clear. Internalizing can go too far. Thinking of others always gets you out of the rut of focusing on yourself. It also helps you recognize people who are self-centered and gives you the confidence to choose who you befriend.
It was helpful.
Come to think of it, I always felt much at ease when I cared less about others’ perception of me, and focused more on external things (what they were talking about, how they feel about that thing, etc..). Basically, concentrate on their perception of anything but me.
This is solid advice, thanks for reminding me of it.
I agree this would give a socially nervous person more confidence, but only if speaking to a socially confident person. How do you feel part of a conversation if it is only focused on them?
This has helped. I’ll try not to focus on how they perceive me the next time
Thank you so much! This helped me a ton! Much appreciated!