How do you know if a guy likes you? He may be acting friendly and flirty towards you, but how can you know if that’s just his personality? You want to know if he has a crush on you rather than just being someone who hits on every other woman he meets.
It can be pretty hard to figure out if the attention a guy is giving you is genuine. Hopefully, this guide can give you some clarity.
Sections
- Signs a guy likes you
- How can you tell if a coworker likes you?
- Does your best friend like you?
- How to be sure whether or not a guy friend likes you
38 signs a guy likes you
When a guy has a crush on you, his behavior towards you will usually change. However, it can be difficult to figure out. He may be acting nervous because he’s shy or flirty because he’s friendly and outgoing.
Here are the best signs to help you tell if a guy has a crush on you or not.
1. He stares at you
You probably know how hard it is not to look at someone you like. Prolonged eye contact without talking is a big tell that a guy likes you.
But to be fair, it’s common for guys to stare at any girl they find attractive. And it’s an easy way for him to show his interest without having to approach you. But who knows, he might even have a secret crush on you.
2. He mirrors you
Mirroring means that his body language, posture, or even what he’s saying reflects what you said or did.
Examples of mirroring:
- When you take a sip of your glass, he also takes a sip of his glass
- When you cross your legs, he crosses his legs
- When you get very animated/passionate in a conversation, he also gets animated
- When you lean in, he also leans in
- When you laugh, he laughs
Note that mirroring is done subconsciously when he has a good rapport with you. But it can also be done consciously if he wants to impress or bond with you. It’s a great sign either way.
3. He added you on social media
Adding you on social media means he wants to keep in contact with you and might be interested in you. This is also good because now you can more easily start a conversation with him online.
4. His texts are longer than yours
If his texts are about the same length or longer than yours, that’s great. It’s especially good if they’re longer than yours.
If he usually gives short answers compared to you, that’s a bad sign. When you’re giving him long replies but not getting the same in return, it means you’re probably too eager.
In that case, it’s good to step back a bit and try to match him better. Keep in mind that some people are naturally better at others at texting.
5. He teases you
Most forms of teasing (even mean teasing) are usually a sign he’s interested in you. It means he’s trying to create a flirty vibe between you and that he wants a reaction from you.
Have fun with it, and don’t be afraid to tease him back! 😉
6. He’s leaning in
If he’s leaning in toward you, that shows he wants to get closer to you (or he’s really passionate about what he’s saying). When a guy has a crush on you, it can feel like he’s magnetically drawn to you.
7. He’s getting physically close to you
If you’re in a conversation and you feel like he’s edging closer to you, or as if he’s almost uncomfortably too close to you, that’s a good sign. He may be attracted to you and wants to feel physically and mentally closer to you.
Note that different cultures have different “personal spaces.” So, if he’s from a different culture than you, see how close he gets to others to see if it’s just you.
8. He offers you a massage
This is one of the most obvious tells that a guy likes you. Offering a massage is a nice thing to do, but it’s also a smooth way for a guy to get you both touching each other. (Remember to offer him one back if you like him!)
9. He smiles at you
If he’s smiling toward you from afar, that’s an invitation to approach him. (I’m assuming you didn’t just forget to put your pants on when leaving home.)
If he’s smiling toward you when you’re in a conversation, that’s a sign he likes you. Especially if he has a light smile while you’re not even joking.
10. He’s giving you mixed signals
Mixed signals are really tricky to interpret and can make anyone confused. But in most cases, they do mean he’s interested in you. Here are the most common reasons why he’s giving you mixed and confusing signals.
Nine reasons why he’s giving you mixed signals:
- He doesn’t want to come off as too eager
- He’s shy
- He’s nervous and insecure
- He’s afraid of seeming desperate
- He’s afraid you’ll reject him
- He’s inexperienced in flirting
- He’s following some weird rules or pick-up tips he’s read
- He’s just flirting with you (because flirting is all about giving mixed signals)
- He likes the attention or validation he gets from you but isn’t really interested in you
Giving mixed signals may mean a guy likes you, but it doesn’t mean he’d make a good partner. If someone sometimes ignores you or is mean to you, you should avoid dating even if you have a mutual crush on each other. You deserve a partner who won’t have you second-guessing yourself.
11. He compliments you
Getting a compliment from a guy your age is a good sign. If he’s giving you compliments about how pretty you are, it’s an even better sign.
It can be hard to tell a friendly compliment from a romantic one because they can sound exactly the same. To know for sure, look for other signs he’s also giving you or describe your situation in the comments below.
12. His pupils are large
If his pupils get large when you’re in a conversation, you’re doing something right. This one is quite subtle because pupil size is primarily determined by light levels, but secondarily attraction can also increase pupil size.
13. He makes eye contact with you
When a guy has a crush on you, it can be so hard for him to keep his eyes off of you. You can notice this if he’s holding eye contact with you for slightly too long.
It can almost feel a little weird or intense when it happens. And that’s great (if you like him).
14. He looks at you with open body language
This sign is most useful at a place with some background music, for example, at a bar or a club.
If he’s moving in rhythm with the background music and at the same time looking at you, that’s a sign he’s attracted to you. Dancing like that and looking at you is an inviting form of body language. That tells you he wants your attention and is trying to get you to make a move.
15. He straightens his posture
Is he straightening his back and standing up more straight? It means he’s a bit self-conscious when hanging out near you and wants to make a good impression.
It’s not a strong sign because most single guys want to make a good impression on attractive girls. But if you see it together with many other signs, it means more.
16. He faces you in group situations
If he’s facing you more often than he’s facing others in a group, that’s a sign he’s into you and values you more than others in the group. This is especially telling if you’re not the one talking the most in the group.
17. His feet are pointing towards you
If his feet are pointing toward you, that’s a sign in the same line as if his body is facing you. He’s subconsciously focused on you, which makes his feet point toward you.
18. He fiddles with his clothes or accessories
This could be because of nervosity, but it can also be because he wants to look good in front of you. It’s a classic sign of attraction.
19. His palms face you
If the palms of his hands are pointed in your direction, he might be interested in you. It’s a small sign, but it’s still positive because it’s part of his open and welcoming body language toward you.
20. He touches you when you touch him
For example, if you touch his arm, does he touch you in a similar area later on in the conversation? If he does reciprocate your touch, that’s a great sign.
If he’s shy or inexperienced, he might not feel comfortable touching you back, even if he has a crush on you.
21. He is extra touchy with you
A good tell he likes you is if he’s touching you unusually much compared to others.
Common areas to touch are arms, shoulders, back, hands, or thighs. Hands or thighs are usually more intimate if he touches those.
22. You have “peripheral physical contact”
Peripheral physical contact is when some parts of your body are in contact with each other when you are doing something else.
A good example is when you’re both sitting down, and your thighs barely touch each other.
This kind of passive physical contact means a lot and can build a lot of suspense and attraction. It’s the best feeling being close to someone you got a crush on.
23. He gives you more of his attention than others
The more attention he gives you, the more interested he usually is in you. Compare this to how much attention he gives to other girls also hanging out with him or in the same group as you.
For example, If you’re in a group and he seems to direct most of his attention toward you. It could be that he’s asking you lots of questions or that he’s laughing more than others at your jokes. Or just listening more intently to you.
24. He blushes when you talk or make eye-contact
He might just be shy, but he’s probably a bit extra self-conscious around you because he likes you. This makes him blush around you.
Social anxiety can also cause blushing. But it’s still a great sign.
25. He seems to look in your direction from far away
Guys can be a bit sneaky when they want to check you out. They can make it seem like they’re only looking in your direction or just grazing you with their eyes. And if he has sunglasses, it’s even harder to know if he’s checking you out.
So if he’s looking in your direction, especially if he does it several times, he’s probably checking you out.
26. He keeps the conversation going
What happens when there’s a pause in the conversation or if you stop talking? If he seems eager to get the conversation going again, that’s good. If he lets the conversation die out or excuses himself, he may not be that interested (unless he’s just shy).
If you have problems with the conversation dying out, check out this guide on keeping the conversation going with a guy.
27. He quickly replies when you text or message him
A quick reply is a good sign he likes you. Also, if he replies with several texts to your one text, that’s even better.
However, if he likes you, he may also delay his replies to avoid seeming needy or desperate. But as long as he replies, it’s all good. If he’s slow to reply, it could just mean he’s busy, or he doesn’t like texting, so don’t read too much into it.
28. He texts or calls first
Is he the one initiating contact, or are you? If he is, that probably means he’s interested in you.
But if he never calls or texts first, that shows a lack of interest. In that case, it can be good to take a step back to see if he will take initiative. If you’re always so quick to take initiative, he might never even have a chance to do it first.
29. He texts you often
Compare this to how often you text him. He’s eager if he’s texting more often than you, and you’re more eager if you’re the one texting more often. If he’s sending you several texts in a row without a reply, it’s a stronger sign.
30. He becomes awkward in a conversation with you
Does he stammer, stutter, or otherwise become awkward with you? This could mean that he feels shy or self-conscious around you. When a guy likes you, it’s common that he gets a bit extra flustered when talking to you. That’s because he gets uncomfortable and doesn’t want to mess up in front of you. It’s kind of cute, isn’t it?
31. He doesn’t back off if you get a bit too close
If he doesn’t even flinch when you get a bit too close to his personal space, that’s a sign he wants you close to him.
If you take a step closer, and he backs off by a step, that’s a sign he’s a bit more reserved toward you.
32. He talks about things he wants to do with you
Planning or mentioning things he wants to do with you in the future strongly indicates some sort of interest, romantic or platonic.
Example: If you’re talking about a newly opened restaurant, they say “We should go there someday!” or “I’ll show you how amazing that place is!”
33. He’s happy to discover you have something in common
If he’s happy, that’s good. This sign is extra strong if it’s something very trivial, such as you living in the same part of town, being the same age, or you both like pizza. For more tips, check out this guide on how to talk to a guy you like.
Example: You discover that you both grew up in the same city, and he gets really excited about it even if it’s no big deal.
34. He asks you personal questions
Personal questions are telling you that he wants to know more about you and is interested in you. The more he asks, the better.
Example: Asking about your plans for the future, your childhood, or your favorite food.
35. He asks you about your plans
Asking about your plans for the day or weekend might just be empty small talk, but it could also be him trying to open a window where you can meet again and hang out. It’s more likely it’s a sign of interest if he brings it up near the end of the conversation.
36. He tries to make you jealous
This is a strong sign he’s interested in you. But it’s also a sign he’s emotionally immature and manipulative. I would avoid someone acting like that. You deserve to be treated with respect.
37. He’s told his family about you
This one is most relevant once you’ve already started dating. But it’s such a huge sign of interest (and approval) that I think it’s worth mentioning. It’s even bigger if he’s from a culture where approval from the family is important.
If he’s told his family, it means he is visualizing and planning a future with you. Congrats!
38. He stays to talk with you even though his friends have left
This is a big tell. If you’re in some sort of group conversation with him and his friends, and all his friends leave, but he stays – he’s probably into you. It still might not be a romantic interest if you just have a great conversation and have lots in common.
An example could be when you’re at a party, and all his friends leave to get a bite to eat, but he stays with you.
How can you tell if a coworker likes you?
At work, It can be hard to tell if a coworker is flirting with you or just being friendly. Usually, guys play it safer at work because he doesn’t want to create any awkward situations if he would be rejected. So, he might be probing to see if you like him before he gives you any clear signs of interest.
Six ways to tell if a coworker likes you:
- He comes over to talk with you as often as possible
- He often teases you
- It seems like he’s flirting, but you’re not really sure
- He tries to hang out near you when possible
- He tries to be funny when he’s near you
- He’s eager to do any work tasks where you work together
- He goes above and beyond to help you out at work
- He gets weird or stiff when he’s near you, but he’s normal with everyone else
How do you know if your best friend likes you?
Here are seven signs your best friend might have started liking you as more than a friend:
- He’s acting differently from how he usually behaves
- He seems jealous or dismissive of other guys you might like
- He’s suddenly extra touchy-feely
- He seems unusually interested in your interests
- He seems extra needy
- He’s told you he has feelings for you
If you’re still unsure, let me know about your situation in the comments below, and I’ll do my best to help.
How do you know for sure if a guy friend is interested?
You can’t know for sure if a cute guy is interested based on a sign on this list. But there are a few questions you can ask yourself:
- Is he regularly showing you signs of interest?
- Does he act differently to others than to you? (So he’s not just flirty with everyone.)
- Has he shown any particularly strong signs of interest?
- Can you see any patterns in his behavior toward you?
Are you still unsure if he likes you?
Write down your situation in the comments below in as much detail as possible. That way, others can help you out by giving their opinion. I also expect you to help someone else by replying to their comment. We need to all pitch in and help each other.
He behaves as he is interested in me and likes me. But from far. He doesn’t tell anything to me. Only look at me again and again.
Please help me. I want to talk to someone who gives advice on what to do. Please give a contact number and help me.
Pareshan ho gayi hu use Karan Mai.
Guys, I’m in high school there’s this boy he’s cute smart and really nice actually he is my guy best friend and I want us 2 to be more than friends but I’m not sure if he likes me that way and I realized a spark when I see him my heart beats so damn fast ok should I tell him…
You should tell him bc if you wait and wait you are going to feel like that for a really long time
Hey since I restarted school I’ve become more close to a guy and he also did. I am starting to have feelings for him but I don’t know if he does too. He’s always teasing me and always tell me that I’m gonna be his future wife but I feel like he does the same with all the girls. He’s very social so he loves having girls’ attention but recently he changed with me and became very close like he wants to do everything with me. So I would like to have some advice of others if he does like me or if he just want to be in a friend zone
i just started a new job and there’s this guy who’s really funny and sweet and cute. i was really nervous the first time i worked with him so i barely spoke and when i did i was very quiet. i usually don’t talk to many people, or anyone that i am interested in. he’s a bit older, and he makes eye contact with me and says i’m doing a good job at work, and when i got a bit panicked and came back with red eyes i could feel him looking at me weird. i don’t know if i’m just imagining this but he seems to stand close to me sometimes and it seems like when i’m across the room he’s looking in my direction? also whenever i check my phone he checks his, is this mirroring?
Am young guy who’s into older guys and there’s older guy who I have been hanging out with. He works in the building I used to stay in. We started spending time together but it was for short periods. As time went on, we would spend more time together or even the whole day. He asks me to help him with his smartphone and to compose messages on his behalf. At times, he gives me intense looks and smiles at me. He is also touchy with me and we walk side by side, we walk into each other and he doesn’t pull away. I like him a lot and I feel he likes me but don’t know how to say it since he’s married and got a family. How can I let him know, please help.
I have a situation where I think a coworker likes me. He is always facing me with his legs spread out wide and we lock eyes a ton. When he talks to me, he tilts his head and he pulls his chair close to me a lot. There are moments where if he has to leave the desk, he’ll give me intense eye contact and say “call me on the walkie if you need me” and usually gives me a small touch on the shoulder or arm. My favorite thing is that he always creates moments where he and I go roam the building for a bit. It’s usually when a customer asks us to find something and we don’t know. He always looks at me and says “let’s go find___together” or “let’s go on a little adventure and figure it out.” He always takes the long way too. He’ll also ask me for help with things to try to get me in his bubble and it’s kinda cute. He’s very chivalrous too. Always opens the door for me or gives me a hand when my hands are full. Or if I get the crappy chair, he’ll switch with me.
I feel his eyes on me all the time. When he talks to me he ignores everyone else in the room and it feels as though we are the only ones in the room where no one else exists!
He then touched me on my back to get cheeky. He remembers and brings up things he saw me write on WhatsApp. He also repeats things I previously told him.
Recently he sent me an video of him working out and then asked I do the same in return with a “please? Haha”
He has a wife. Maybe I’m naive. Who knows but what is going on someone confirm please.
Help Omfg please anyone help.. so basically in my tennis academy there is a boy who is like 2 years older than me and he always staring at me and we are having an eye contact sometimes and he always like standing behind my back but there is no reason for it. And even my parents said that “he always looks at you” and also, when our parents were talking abt something he was like really nervous about something im confused help.. and he also called me a Marshmallow..
Eye contact is one of the most obvious ways to tell whether a guy likes you or not.
If he is single, maybe ask him. What have you got to loose.
Okay I need help asap.
So. There is this guy in my first period and he’s so nice to me. He’s rather shy and a bit timid but barley talks to anyone. Even his so call friends. But with me it’s different. After the teacher stops talking, he’ll ask me for help and talk to me a bit. We just met so he hasn’t ask anything personal. However, I said a few things and he’s always keeping eye contact and smiles at anything I say that is funny. I’m trying to get closer to him and become friends. I already like him and I stutter and stammer all the time. He’s just so damn hot. But am I reading the signals right? Should I make the first move or let him? Idk I need help!
Ok, this is crazy I am 55 and this handsome young man 33 a co worker whom I don’t really know. We seem to have this eye contact thing. We are always staring at each other if one of us come in the room. We have been alone once in a room. I was on the phone and he was waiting on me to get off it was weird and sexy at the same time. Nothing happened but Since, then me or him always seem to be in each other area when he or I work. Its like both of us are looking to see if the other is working. Just weird and sexy. He always seem to be in my personal space if I near him and I don’t mind it. We have a serious eye stare its very noticeable at first then we act like it didn’t happen. Just weird and sexy to me?
We say hello and then the stare its really strong I feel it.
Hi,
I have a work-related crush situation! and I don’t know what to think or even do for that matter.
There’s this guy at my work – who I think is really cute, attractive 🙂 and nice to me but I feel like I am getting sort of mixed signs from him; if he is interested in me or likes me as a friend. When I usually am on my shifts when he’s there I feel like he stares at me a lot, plus fixes his hair and wherever! wherever I am if I’m doing a task related thing, he will I’d notice approach up to me to say; “hey” and kinda almost turn the charm…
So I am not sure what I’d do in this situation or what it even means.. these signs but am still not positive yet..! 🙂
i feel like we are giving each mixed messages and we are both shy so who should speak first
Well, I met a guy at a church, where we both attend. every first and second Sunday of each month, the church serves dinner, so, one Sunday, I ask him did he have a phone, and he said yes, so, I ask him to put my phone number in his phone, and he did. We have been talking ever since.
Am a guy I have a crush on another guy, my crush usually looks at me more longer than before, I noticed it now he knows I have feelings for him too. Whenever I look at him when he looks at me he quickly removes his face ,
I don’t know what to do because he is older than me am a teen and he is youth
Please help me out
Hi , so my cousins best friend asked me if i can be his best friend i said yes he always call me and he text me sometimes and we play roblox together
I dont think he likes me
Hi
There’s this guy i met at work he was my boss, initially we never used to talk but after some time he started talking to me a lot, laughing at my jokes, teasing me, he would walk alongside me when we go outside the building and he was so helpful to me. I moved to another province and was no longer working with him but I have friends in the complex where he stays, he is quite antisocial but he would come to my friend’s flat when I am around and he would hang out with us, he makes eye contact with me and always find him sitting next to me when we are in a group gathering. The issue is he never initiates texting with me but whenever I text him he replies quickly and with laughing emojis.i can tell he likes me and my friends always tell the both of us we like each other but he never approaches me.
I fell in love w a guy, he told me he was divorcing his wife, now he’s gay, living w a flaming gay guy (no judgement) then flirts w me all day, loves R Paul bc it’s men who dress as women, tells me he loves me, still acts & dresses like a guy, but now has inherited some of the flamboyance, he claims he’s bi, he likes Asian men only… we are inseparable at work, his BF likes me, but is so jealous when we r together , idk what to think, he’s either stuck to me like glue or. Acts like I don’t exist
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I like my friends ex. I know about girl code and all… but this is a bit different. I just cant tell. He follows me on instagram (now) and he left his friends to walk with me… and gave me a wrapper (this part confused me) and his hand lightly brushed mine, but he was slightly smiling. I also think I caught him winking at me yesterday, and in that same time I was playfully pretending to punch and kick him but he didn’t flinch (until I slapped him) <- I regret that last bit. I don’t know if he likes me or not, because as well he hated me 2 years ago… and was telling his girlfriend (now ex) just a few months ago how much he hates me. Could he like me? Did his feelings toward me change? I need help please!!!
hi
Hi,
Ok, so my boss of 3 years hardly talks to me at work unless he needs me to do something for him… very rarely gives me eye contact and barely acts as though I exist during the work day.
For the past 3 years though, we have messaged almost every night and usually starts off by him telling me something about work. Messaging usually goes on throughout the evening until late at night.
I am married and he has been in a long distance relationship that has recently ended.
We sometimes hang out at my house when I organise for a couple of colleagues to pop over for food and drink. He is always the last to leave and we often sit up until the early hours of the morning just talking.
He loves to talk about himself but also is interested in what I have to say. There is very little touching as he seems to like his personal space, however I sometimes get a hug goodbye.
He has made it clear that he would never cheat on anyone and would never see a married woman, but I feel there is something there.
We have never spoken about anything sexual, but recently he has told me he finds someone at work attractive.
I’m so confused… its so difficult because he’s my boss and he’s super professional but also feel he secretly likes me. Help!
Ok so this guy is my age, we’ve been quite friendly for a few years now but recently I feel as though we’ve gotten a lot closer. I thought I liked this other guy but my friend said she noticed me acting differently around guy 1). She’d tease me saying that we’ve got a strong connection but I always dismissed it as I said I liked someone else. But in all honesty I don’t like that guy, and feel as though I might be liking guy 1. We get along really well and always manage to have a laugh together. When we’re sat across the room from each other I do find myself looking at him and at times I find him looking at me. It’s never awkward though and we do acknowledge each other and he tried to make me laugh which always works. He does seem to lean in pretty close when he talks to me, which is fine but today he seemed a lot closer than usual and it made me feel a bit funny, but a good kind of funny, you know? I’m really not sure if he likes me though or if I like him 100%, I just don’t want to ruin what we have already. I really like him, but I don’t know if it’s as more than a friend or not, I’m kinda confused
Hello ! I have this Co-worker that I worked with .. so there’s this one time we role play as gf and bf going out for dinner dates , pretending to be his gf I kept giving him very difficult situations and asking him what he would do and all and surprisingly he was so so patient with me and going along with me . There’s this one time he got drunk at work and he texted me and ask me why I didn’t wait for him and say that told me he was drunk all but then the next few days he became so cold to me .. so I tried to get his attention by being abit rude to him and he didn’t talked and ignored me that day .. when we sit down together , we will sit quite close and he will always go along with the requests I give him .. we didn’t talk often via text , even if we do our convo will only last for one day .. ( oh he just recently broke up with his gf ) need some help ????????
Hi everyone.So there is a guy in my life which I think I love a lot.My dad is a bussines man.He has got a bar restaurant and hotel and my crush works for him so I dont actually get to stay a lot with him.When there are events in my dads restaurant I get to stay more with him since my mom works in the kitchen and I go to help her too.While there are events in my dads place we smile a lot at each other we do a lot of high fives eye contacts he winks at me he stares a lot at me and teases me alot too etc etc.But the thing which makes me sad and confused is that he is 4 years older.And he also talks to other girl on his phone so Idk if he has feelings for me too or its just a normal friendship.Please leave a comment to help me <3
So there is a guy I talk to ,we chat ,we tease each other ,his family is close to mine ,his sister likes me . we are very close ,but I found out that he is in a relationship with someone,but still we enjoy talking to each other everyday ,he calls me favy and he calls me ma.I really like him but for some reason he doesn’t want to talk to me I can feel it ,its like his scared or something,so I wish you can really help me.I want to know how he really feels about me because I know he likes me
I work with this guy he’s 43 we play video games when we’re both free. I told him my true feelings and he told me he wasn’t gay and if we were cool since then we’ve been close friends. He knows I’m gay and that I like him but he goes out of his way to help me out with things. he let me borrow a phone of his when I didn’t have service cause he didn’t want me not having a phone if I was in need of help. He buys me coffee or monster energy drinks in the morning and I do the same. He makes jokes at me like I’m trying to grab his hand or how I didn’t pinch his butt. Just all around naughty jokes only towards me. Whenever I’m talking to a higher up about important business I can see him from the office just staring at me or all around I catch him staring. He’s always laughing at my jokes and I’m no where near a comedian status. We throw things back and forth at each other playfully teasing each other. When we text he calls me a dork when I joke around with him during texting. He’ll hit me up on his days off randomly asking me how’s work or watcha up to. I really like him he gives off vibes that he might closeted but I’m no expert at reading body languages. What should I do?
While I was in 1st year of my clg I proposed him.but he turned down gently.He slowed down conversing with me . I started ignoring him but he still talks to me whenever we meet and stares me sometimes and asks for some help and asks me to get a selfie together.i don’t get a proper time to ask him about this. I jus wanna know how does he feels about me. sometimes I feel like don’t wanna get into it/sometimes I wanna.
I have a crush on someone who I approached at the club and engaged in conversation with. I sent him a message after via Facebook messenger, suggesting we go out to eat sometime. He tapped my message with the heart emoji. I messaged him the next morning and to this day (2 weeks later) he has not read my message. When I saw him at the club again this weekend, I was with my friends – he was with his – and everywhere I went, him and his friend followed my group and stood nearby – as if he wanted me to see him there. I’m confused – why not open my social media message but then follow me around the club making sure I see you? The fact that he did not read my social media message makes me feel rejected.
There is a guy in my gym, who literally steal glances, staring at me. Try to make eye contact, look at me whenever he laugh. ALWAYS try to help me with my excersise and position and all But he never took any initiative in messaging me. He even flirt with me .. i don’t know
Hello Kuki, I would say be patient maybe and give it some time. If you like him too then I would message him first since that sounds pretty chill for now.
If you don’t like him like that then I’d suggest maybe keeping in touch and maybe even asking him if he likes you! I mean hey you never know right! Also, you can always just be friends.
Hope this helps! All the best 🙂
Hello Kuki, I would say be patient maybe and give it some time. If you like him too then I would message him first since that sounds pretty chill for now.
If you don’t like him like that then I’d suggest maybe keeping in touch and maybe even asking him if he likes you! I mean hey you never know right! Also, you can always just be friends.
Hope this helps! All the best ????
So there is this guy in my neighborhood that I like we have known each other for as long as I can remember our moms are friends so we hang out a lot. And through that time I have grown to have a crush on him! A couple weeks ago we were both at this dance and we slowed danced with each other. While on the dance floor the conversation went really smooth and he kept finding things that we both enjoy to talk about. And now a few days ago we both showed up a party I kept teasing him but he just laughed lightly. He really won’t talk to me after we danced. I don’t know what to do or what to think! Any advice would be great! Please!!??
Hello Grace,
I would say text him thank you for the drink. Unless, you’re scared that your husband might found out and things may go down the drain even more.
Hope this helped! All the best 🙂
Hello Grace,
I would say text him thank you for the drink. Unless, you’re scared that your husband might found out and things may go down the drain even more.
Hope this helped! All the best ????
So there is a guy of my sports team I really like. But I dont know if I‘m interpreting things or if he feels similar. I see him regularly but I dont know him that well. Once I tried to talk to him, he went away. He sometimes laughs at me and teases me. I was never really alone with him and if that happens we didn’t speak, since I’m shy and I believe he is shy too. Thoughts?
I have a feeling this could be something.
This would be a cute love story.
I feel like you both should maybe start talking to each other more and see if that’s something that both of you may really want. Hope this helped and all the best 🙂
Respectfully, P.
So there’s this guy I kind of work with, he’s a delivery driver for the place I work so I only see him once a week. He always makes it a point to get my attention in some way by either talking to me, scaring me, pretending like he’s going to throw stuff at me, sticks his tongue out at me just really playful or teasing. If he’s walking by where I’m at we always make some form of eye contact sometimes with a smile and sometimes even like a grumpy face to get a reaction out of me . I feel like he likes me buuut I’ve had a crush on him from the moment I laid eyes on him so I don’t know if I’m just reading too much into it because I’m hoping he likes me too. Would love some insight.
All those things u mentioned he defenitely likes u but don’t act weird around him play it cool then u won’t be in the friend zone. So what i’m saying is he likes u ok ????????????????????