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Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.

Viktor is a Counselor specialized in interpersonal communication and relationships. He manages SocialSelf’s scientific review board. Follow on Twitter or read more.
Feeling Left Out? Reasons Why and What to Do

Feeling Left Out? Reasons Why and What to Do

September 21, 2022September 21, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.

Do you keep feeling excluded at work, with friends, or in group conversations? Humans are herd animals. We all want to feel included.[1] As much as we will hear “don’t … Read more

25 Tips To Be More Extroverted (Without Losing Who You Are)

25 Tips To Be More Extroverted (Without Losing Who You Are)

September 16, 2022September 14, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.

“Can you force yourself to be an extrovert, and if so, how? I feel like my introversion holds me back from making friends, and extroverted people seem to have a … Read more

40 Free or Cheap Things to Do With Friends for Fun

40 Free or Cheap Things to Do With Friends for Fun

September 8, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.

Some social activities, such as eating out or bar hopping, can get expensive fast. But you don’t need to spend much money to have fun with your friends. Here are … Read more

How to Tell if People Don’t Like You (Signs to Look For)

How to Tell if People Don’t Like You (Signs to Look For)

September 7, 2022September 7, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.

Do you worry that other people don’t like you very much? For example, maybe you’re wondering whether new acquaintances enjoy talking to you, or perhaps you have a hunch that … Read more

25 Signs to Tell Fake Friends From Real Friends

25 Signs to Tell Fake Friends From Real Friends

September 5, 2022September 2, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated September 5, 2022

“I seem to attract people who act nice at first but turn out to be unreliable, two-faced, or self-centered. I want to know how to avoid fake friends who don’t … Read more

What Is the Social Self? Definition and Examples

What Is the Social Self? Definition and Examples

August 31, 2022August 30, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.

If you’re interested in psychology, you might have come across references to the social self. But what exactly does the term mean? In this article, we’ll look at how psychologists … Read more

How to Stop Being Passive-Aggressive (With Clear Examples)

How to Stop Being Passive-Aggressive (With Clear Examples)

September 14, 2022August 24, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated September 14, 2022

You may have heard that being passive-aggressive is unhealthy, but what exactly does the term mean? This article will explain what it means to be passive-aggressive. You’ll learn the common … Read more

How to Tell a Friend You Like Them As More Than a Friend

How to Tell a Friend You Like Them As More Than a Friend

August 18, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.

Some romantic relationships begin with friendship. You might meet someone you click with, become friends, and gradually find yourself developing a crush on them. If they return your feelings, it … Read more

How to Set Boundaries (With Examples of 8 Common Types)

How to Set Boundaries (With Examples of 8 Common Types)

September 14, 2022August 11, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated September 14, 2022

Boundaries are essential for good relationships. Clear boundaries help both people understand what to expect from one another, which can reduce misunderstandings. But setting boundaries isn’t always easy, especially if … Read more

Birthday Depression: 5 Reasons Why, Symptoms, & How to Cope

Birthday Depression: 5 Reasons Why, Symptoms, & How to Cope

August 10, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.

Do you hate your birthday? Having the “birthday blues” is not uncommon. Some people with birthday depression will try to keep their birthday hidden or ask others not to celebrate … Read more

Which Is the Best Online Therapy Service in 2022, and Why?

Which Is the Best Online Therapy Service in 2022, and Why?

August 9, 2022August 9, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.

Online therapy has become a widespread alternative to traditional in-person treatment. But with so many services out there, which one should you pick? In this guide, we’ll focus on two … Read more

224 Deep Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend (Bond & Connect)

224 Deep Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend (Bond & Connect)

February 26, 2023August 5, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated February 26, 2023

Asking your girlfriend deep questions can both help you understand if you’re compatible, and also build a deeper connection. Understanding your girlfriend’s deepest thoughts, dreams, and values helps you be … Read more

84 One-Sided Friendship Quotes to Help You Spot & Stop Them

84 One-Sided Friendship Quotes to Help You Spot & Stop Them

March 1, 2023August 1, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated March 1, 2023

If you’ve ever been in a one-sided friendship, you might have been left feeling hurt and confused. It doesn’t feel good to put the effort in when your friend doesn’t reciprocate. … Read more

How to Be Less Judgmental (and Why We Judge Others)

How to Be Less Judgmental (and Why We Judge Others)

July 29, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.

Has someone ever called you judgy? Being overly critical and judgmental can push people away. When we’re judging others, we’re putting up a wall between them and us, and in … Read more

61 Fun Things to Do in the Winter With Friends

61 Fun Things to Do in the Winter With Friends

September 11, 2022July 28, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated September 11, 2022

For a lot of us, when winter comes, we stop doing the things we love. It’s easy to get bored when you feel like you are stuck inside and can’t … Read more

Positive Self-Talk: Definition, Benefits, & How to Use It

Positive Self-Talk: Definition, Benefits, & How to Use It

August 24, 2022July 27, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated August 24, 2022

Most of us have an inner monologue that helps us understand ourselves, other people, and events going on around us. This inner monologue, also known as self-talk, can be positive, … Read more

106 Things to Do as a Couple (For Any Occasion & Budget)

106 Things to Do as a Couple (For Any Occasion & Budget)

July 22, 2023July 26, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated July 22, 2023

Is life with your spouse starting to feel routine? If yes, it’s important that you start prioritizing date nights and doing fun things together. Stop sitting at home watching Netflix … Read more

8 Reasons Why Friendships End (According to Research)

8 Reasons Why Friendships End (According to Research)

August 18, 2022July 25, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated August 18, 2022

A friendship breakup can be just as painful as a romantic breakup. Yet it’s often harder to understand the reasons why friendships end. And while romantic relationships usually have an … Read more

No Hobbies or Interests? Reasons Why and How to Find One

No Hobbies or Interests? Reasons Why and How to Find One

August 22, 2022July 25, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated August 22, 2022

Do you feel awkward or even panicked when you meet someone new and they ask you what you do for fun? It doesn’t feel good to say, “I surf the … Read more

15 Ways to Practice Gratitude: Exercises, Examples, Benefits

15 Ways to Practice Gratitude: Exercises, Examples, Benefits

August 2, 2022July 25, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A.Last updated August 2, 2022

Focusing on the good things in your life has many positive side effects. For example, it can improve your mental health and strengthen your relationships. In this article, you’ll learn … Read more

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