47 Signs a Girl Likes You (How to Know if She Has a Crush)

How do you know if a girl likes you or even has a crush on you? These days, it can be quite difficult to know. She may be acting friendly, but what if she’s friendly towards everyone? Is she flirting, or are you imagining it?

Some women are more outgoing than others, so they may seem like they’re flirting even when they’re not. And some are shy, so they may seem withdrawn and uninterested even if they have a huge crush! It can be pretty hard to figure out, which is why we wrote this guide.

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  1. Signs she likes you
  2. Does your best friend have a crush on you?
  3. How can you know for sure if a girl likes you?

47 signs she likes you

Unless a girl tells you outright that she likes you, you will have to try to understand by her context clues. When we have a crush on someone, there are usually changes in behavior around that person. Some changes are intentional (if they’re trying to show you that they are interested), while others are unintentional (due to nervousness).

The more of these signs she shows, the more likely it is that she has a crush on you, rather than just being a flirty or friendly person overall. Here are 47 signs to help tell if a girl likes you.

1. She laughs at your jokes

Laughing at your jokes can be a huge sign of interest (especially if you are not a particularly funny person…) If she smiles and laughs a lot around you, she may have a crush.

If you want to make a girl you like to laugh more, you may like to read this article on how to be funny (for un-funny people).

2. She mirrors you

Mirroring means that her body language, posture, or even what she’s saying reflects what you said or did. So if you take a sip of your glass, if she’s mirroring that, she’ll also take a sip of her glass. Or if you cross your legs and she does the same, that’s also mirroring.

Remember that mirroring is done subconsciously when she has a very good rapport with you. But it can also be done consciously if she wants to impress or bond with you. It’s a great sign either way.

3. She adds you on social media

This one means she wants to stay in touch and is at least a little bit interested in you. It also makes it much easier for you to take initiative by messaging or commenting on her posts.

4. She writes you long texts

Is she always giving you short answers, or is she giving you a small novel as a reply?

If her texts are about the same length or longer than yours, that’s great. It’s especially good if they’re longer than yours.

If you’re usually giving her long replies but not getting the same in return, it means you’re probably too eager. In that case, it’s often good to step back a bit and try to match her better. Give her some space, so she wants to come back to you again.

5. She teases you

Is it mean teasing or more flirty and light-hearted?

Most forms of teasing (even mean) are usually a sign she’s interested in you. I LOVE it when a girl I like tries to tease me. It means she’s trying to create a flirty vibe between you and that she wants a reaction from you. Just don’t take it too seriously and try to have fun with her!

6. She leans in toward you

If she’s leaning in toward you, that’s a sign she’s eager to get your attention or get her message across. And in the best case, it also means she’s eager to get closer to you.

7. She moves closer to you

If you’re in a conversation and you feel like she’s edging closer to you, or as if she’s almost uncomfortably too close to you, that’s a good sign. It could mean she’s attracted to you and wants to feel closer to you both physically and mentally.

Take note that different cultures have different “personal spaces.” So, if she’s from a different culture than you, it might just be because of that.

8. She bites her lips

Biting herself lightly on the lip is a flirty and cute (or sexy) signal. If she’s biting herself in the lip while you’re talking, that’s great. She’s probably into you.

9. She smiles at you

If she’s smiling toward you from afar, that’s an invitation to approach her. Or she’s flirting with you. (I’m assuming you didn’t just forget to put your pants on when leaving home).

If she’s smiling toward you when you’re in a conversation, that’s a sign she likes you. Especially if she has a light smile while you’re not even joking.

10. She licks her lips or teeth

Is she licking her lips or teeth? This is similar to biting her lips, but a bit more subtle and less flirty. Still a good sign she might like you.

11. She’s blinking more than normal

According to Blake Eastman, a body language expert, an increased blink rate can signify attraction[1], so it may be a good sign if you notice that she seems to be blinking more around you.

12. Her pupils are larger than normal

If her pupils get large when you’re in a conversation, you’re doing something right. This one is quite subtle because pupil size is primarily determined by light levels, but secondarily attraction can also increase pupil size.

13. She’s keeping eye contact for longer

If you notice that she’s holding eye contact slightly longer than normal, she’s probably trying to get your attention or make a connection with you. It’s a good sign that she’s interested in you. That kind of eye contact often feels more intense and can even be a bit weird or uncomfortable.

14. She’s gives you a light smile

Say that you’re all standing in a circle, and you two make eye contact when someone else is talking. Does she give you a slight smile? She probably likes you (or is a very kind person, which is also a good sign!)

Same thing if you make eye contact at a distance, in a park, or at a bar. A smile is like an invitation to start talking.

15. She looks at you with open body language

This sign is most useful at a place with some background music, such as a bar or a club.

If she’s moving in rhythm with the background music and at the same time looking at you, that can be a sign she’s attracted to you. Dancing like that and looking at you is an inviting form of body language. That tells you she wants your attention and is trying to get you to make a move.

16. She corrects her posture

Does she straighten her posture when she gets your attention or is close to you? That means she’s trying to make a good impression on you.

On the other hand, a more relaxed posture can mean that she feels comfortable around you, which can also be a good sign.

17. She faces you

If she’s facing you more often than she’s facing others in a group, that’s a sign she’s into you and values you more than others in the group. This is especially telling if you’re not even the one talking the most in the group.

18. Her feet point towards you

If her feet are pointing toward you, that’s a sign in the same line as if her body is facing you. She’s subconsciously focused on you, which makes her feet point toward you. It’s a sign of open body language.

19. She fiddles with or straightens her clothes, jewelry, or accessories

This could be because of nervosity, but it can also be because she wants to look good in front of you. It’s a classic sign of attraction.

20. Her palms are faced in your direction

If the palms of their hands are pointed in your direction, she might be interested in you. It’s a weak signal, but it’s still positive because it’s part of an open and welcoming body language she has toward you.

21. She touches you back

For example, if you touch her arm, does she touch you in a similar area later on in the conversation? If she does reciprocate your touch, that’s a great sign, but it also depends on if she’s touchy with most people or just you.

Keep in mind that shy girls usually don’t touch back because they’re so afraid of messing up.

22. She touches you when you talk

Common areas to touch are arms, shoulders, back, hands, or thighs. Hands or thighs are usually more intimate if she touches those. Some girls aren’t so comfortable with touch, and it takes them a while to warm up. So if she doesn’t touch you, it isn’t necessarily a sign that she doesn’t like you if she shows many other signs on the list.

23. You have “peripheral physical contact”

Peripheral physical contact is when some parts of your body are in contact with each other when you are doing something else.

For example, if you’re both sitting down and your thighs are barely touching each other. Or if you’re walking side by side and she grabs hold of your arm. That kind of passive physical contact means a lot and can build a lot of tension and attraction.

24. She’s giving you more of her attention

For example, if she directs most of her attention when you’re in a group. Or if she’s only asking you questions or if she’s laughing more than others at your jokes.

The more attention she gives you, the more interested she usually is in you.

25. She blushes

Does she blush when you talk or make eye contact? She might be shy, but she’s probably a bit self-conscious around you because she likes you.

26. She looks at you from afar

Girls are often a bit sneaky when they want to check you out. They can make it seem like they’re only looking in your direction or just grazing you with their eyes. I’ve even seen girls using window reflections to check out a guy (and to check if he’s looking at them). Sunglasses are even sneakier.

So if she’s looking in your direction, especially if she does it several times, she’s probably checking you out.

27. She keeps the conversation going

What happens when you stop talking or can’t come up with anything to say? If she seems eager to get the conversation going again, that’s good. If she excuses herself, she may not be that interested.

Click here to read my full guide on how to talk to girls.

28. She always replies

Does she always reply when you call or text?

Quicker responses are often a sign of interest. But many girls are so afraid of appearing needy that they delay their response even if they like you.

29. She texts or calls you first

If she’s often the one initiating, that’s a very strong sign she’s into you.

But if she never calls or texts first, that shows a lack of interest. In that case, it can be good to take a step back to see if she will take initiative when you don’t do it before she even has the chance.

30. She texts you often

Compare this to how often you text her. It’s the same principle as matching the length of her texts. She’s eager if she’s texting more often than you, and you’re eager if you’re the one texting more often.

31. She stammers, stutters, or forgets what she was about to say

Does she seem nervous when you guys are having a conversation? This could mean she’s a bit extra shy or self-conscious around you, which tells you that she might also be a bit extra interested in you.

32. She doesn’t back off when you get closer

If she doesn’t even flinch when you get a bit too close to her personal space, that’s a sign she wants you close to her.

If you take a step closer, and she backs off by a step, that’s a sign she’s a bit more reserved toward you.

33. She talks about future plans

Planning or mentioning things they want to do with you in the future strongly indicates some sort of interest, romantic or platonic.

For example, if you’re talking about a newly opened restaurant, they say, “We should go there someday!” or “I’ll show you how amazing that place is!” If you’re talking about art and she wants to share her work, that’s a good sign too.

34. She’s pleased with your commonalities

How does she react when she finds out that you have something in common? If she’s happy, that’s good. This sign is extra strong if it’s something very trivial, like that you live in the same part of town, you’re the same age, or you both like pizza.

35. She asks you personal questions

If she is, that’s telling you that she wants to know more about you and is interested in you. The more she asks, the better.

For example, asking about your plans for the future, your childhood, or just about your favorite food. Asking you questions is literally showing interest in you.

36. She asks about your plans

Asking about your plans for the day or weekend might just be empty small talk, but it could also be her trying to open a window where you can meet again and hang out. It’s more likely it’s a sign of interest if she brings it up near the end of the conversation.

37. She seems embarrassed if you two are the only two people left in a situation

If she does but doesn’t do anything to leave the situation, that means she’s just a bit shy but still interested.

A classic example is if you meet her with her girlfriends at a bar, and then all her friends leave, but she stays. That’s perfect because it also means her friends approve of you.

38. She tells her friends or family about you

This one is most relevant once you’ve already started dating. But it’s such a huge sign of interest (and approval) that I thought it was worth mentioning. It’s even bigger if she’s from a culture where approval from the family is important.

If she’s told her family, it means she is visualizing and planning a future with you. Congrats!

If she just told her friends, that’s also great, but not as big as her family.

39. She offers you a massage

Offering a massage is a nice thing to do, but it’s also a smooth way for a girl to get you both touching each other. (Remember to offer her one back if you like her!)

40. She reschedules when she can’t make a date

Say you were meant to meet up with her, but she cancels. How can you know if she truly couldn’t make it or if she just isn’t interested?

Life happens, and everyone has to change or cancel plans sometimes. If she tries to reschedule when she cancels, it’s a good sign she is interested in you and had to cancel for legitimate reasons.

41. She compliments you

If she gives you positive feedback, it’s a good sign she likes you. While teasing can also be a sign she likes you, some women are more prone to compliment a guy they like, and many do both.

42. She gives you small gifts

Does she pick up things for you or give you gifts or trinkets? That’s a sign that she’s thinking about you and wants to make you feel good. For example, if you’ve mentioned that you have a weakness for pastries, and she shows up with a croissant the next time you meet up, that’s a really good sign that she likes you.

43. She follows up on things you tell her

Remembering that you said you have a test coming up and asking how it went is a sign that she takes you seriously and also that she wants you to know that she listens to you and cares.

44. She lets you know she’s single

Bringing up the fact that she’s single could be a way for her to let you know that she’s available and interested.

45. She asks for your help

Asking for your help can be a way to spend more time with you and establish a connection. It can also be a way for her to check how responsive and helpful you are to get an idea of how you would behave as a romantic partner.

46. She opens up to you

Asking you questions about yourself shows that she’s interested and wants to learn more about you. Sharing things about herself is a sign that she trusts you and wants to get closer to you.

47. She has a nickname for you

Giving you a nickname can be a flirty way to show that she likes you.

Does your best friend have a crush on you?

It can be more difficult to figure out these signs if you’re already friends with someone. If you’re close friends, she probably already texts you, tells you about her life, teases you, spends time with you, and so on. How can you know if it’s just friendship or if there’s more going on?

Is she acting differently from how she usually behaves? If there’s a sudden change in her behavior towards you, it may be a sign that her feelings have changed. On the other hand, if her behavior has changed in all aspects of life, it may have nothing to do with you.

Does she seem jealous or dismissive of other girls you might like? Is she suddenly extra touchy-feely? Is she unusually interested in your interests? These changes may indicate that her feelings towards you are shifting or that she’s trying to work out what she feels.

Those are all signs your best friend might have started liking you as more than a friend.

How do you know for sure if she’s interested?

You can’t know for sure if she’s interested based on a sign on this list. But there are a few rules you can use to help you know:

  1. Is she regularly showing you different signs of interest?
  2. Does she act differently to others than to you? (So she’s not just flirty with everyone.)
  3. Has she shown any particularly strong signs of interest?

The only one to know for sure is to check with her. Let her know you are interested and see if the feeling is mutual.

Are you still unsure if she likes you?

Write it down in the comments below in as much detail as possible for other commenters to help you out. I’ll also respond to a few of the most interesting comments. But I can’t keep up with all the comments alone, so try to help others by answering them too. Poorly written comments with bad grammar will be deleted.

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Viktor is a Counselor specialized in interpersonal communication and relationships. He manages SocialSelf’s scientific review board. Follow on Twitter or read more.

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  1. I have a crush since the first day I saw him in 2017 and since then thing got weard, we are seeing each other at church, he is married but I cant help it I like this man, he always sits infront of the church and me at the back we hug sometimes, talk somethimes I even told him I have a crush on him and he was not angry at me just said maybe as a father but I told him no not at all. And he does not mind me being close to him or he to me and I once accidently touched his leg while sitting I thought I am going to get shouted at but he kept quite looking at me and I was looking at him, what a moment but we just carried on listening to the Priest.

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  2. Okay, so I like this girl and I have her on Snapchat and we’re #1 on each other’s best friends list and we have a 100 day streak and within them 100 days, we’ve hung out 3 times and we’ve done things together (sexually). But she calls me her “bestfriend forever” and all kinds of other things like “you deserve the world” and “you’re the sweetest guy I know”. I don’t know what to think about everything, I have more information if someone can help me out

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  3. this girl i like, she teases in the conversation, strong eye contact, she laughs at me if we just look at each other,feet pointed to me, she straightening her hair while we talk, she talks about her family to me a lot, even talks about her future education, kids, etc… seems to be open and closed case but i dont want to mess up a good friendship if she actually dont want to move it up a level.

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  4. I work with this girl, she always takes time to ask about out if work things like if I live local and how old am I, and the other day I caught her grinning at me as I passed her.
    Two minutes after, she came to ask me something and places her hands on my hips from behind and I was quite surprised.. lol.

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  5. She texts me everyday and will text all day long!
    She is always there when I need advice and to help me get through something.
    She is always telling me how sweet and nice I am.
    She is always laughing at things I say.
    She is aware of my divorce and ever since I moved out, is now happy and will FaceTime me.
    We talk on the phone for almost an hour sometimes more.
    She always asks how I’m doing.
    She always texts or calls me when she is frustrated or wants to vent.
    She says she is very appreciative of things I do for her and always being there for her.
    She went out of her way and out a lot of thought behind getting me a gift.
    She tells me she is trying to pay more attention to things I say and how much I pay attention to her.
    She is always telling me how great of a guy I am.
    She lets me know when she does things or when she gets home etc…

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  6. Okay so I’m gonna jump right into it. There’s this Starbucks I regularly go to and I’ve grown to know many of the employees but one in particular is obviously my favorite. She was the first one to ask me what my name was. We started talking each time and there seems to be some sort of connection. we both get more visibility excited to see each other every time I go through the drive thru. Yesterday we hit a new level of excited. I drove through after work like I always do because Starbucks takes all my money but I pull up to the window to pay and she’s standing in the background and as she sees me pull up she waves super excitedly at me(yes I’m sure it’s directed towards me I was the only one in her line of sight) then runs over to the window disregarding the paperwork she was doing also stealing the drive thru from who was running it. She says “what’s up sunglasses! I haven’t seen you in a while!” (She actually has a nickname for me) she then proceeds to tell me she started working nights and I should come in sometime. We ended up holding up the drive thru talking (it was both of us not just me). Today I did my usual and went after work. She happened to be working again she then proceeded to steal the drive thru window again and right as I pulled up she said “HEY QUEEN” super excited. She said she liked my new rainbow watch band and asked if I was going to the pride parade BUT THEN SHE ASKED ME IF I HAD A SNAPCHAT. So obviously I gave it to her because I was gonna ask her for her number at some point I just didn’t wanna scare her off or anything. I asked her if she was working tomorrow and she said she was working close. I told her that I would keep that in mind (super mysterious I know lol) and she’s like “alright see you tomorrow then :)”. We snap chatted almost instantly and she kept sneaking to use her phone while she was at work.

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    • Well, I really fancy a male barista at my local branch of Starbucks so you’re by no means the only one!

      I get the distinct impression that some of his male colleagues think the situation is hilarious, though I must admit I have no idea whether they’re poking fun at me, him or both of us.

      Today one of these men told me I was a “VIP” customer and plastered a huge, exaggerated grin on his face.

      This was RIGHT IN FRONT of the one I like.

      So I just said that if I was a “VIP” customer, did that mean I could get a discount? 🙂

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  7. Hi Mr Viktor please answer this so this girl that I like she will always play fight with me even though she does it With other boys then she will try to get me in trouble like she say that to the teacher that I kick her even though I didn’t kick her and today she ask do ever had girlfriend and I say no then she ask if I want a girlfriend and I say stupidly say no and then one time she that this girl like me even though I don’t the girl I don’t know if she like me please help me!

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  8. Hey .. I live in an environment where it is almost impossible to meet with my girlfriend.. I know her from 8 year but we fell in love in 2017 end. She likes me as she tells me but she always remain reserve due to religious belief and she is unable to text me everyday because she has no personal mobile.. she still pretend to love me . She also cant able to tell to her family and whenever i am angry on her often she says sorry to me. But she is not much interested in love talks but interested in general talks. I dont know what but just i want to know that does she loves me or not.. she is not jealous when i talk to other girls but she says that she trusts me and i’ll not leaving her anyway. We both are 18 years old.

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  9. Hi my name is MXO Handebe . And I have a crash in my church her name is ALWA , she very full of her that girl I’m telling you man. One day it our second seveys in Church. She was sitting next to me busy with her phone whatapping during the surveys, So I was looking through her phone just to see who is she talking to ….what she said to me was very very hurtful. She said “HEY you what are you looking through my phone , stop look through my business boy” then I stopped looking as she told . Then I saw a pic of WEED on the a plant .And she said it again”HEY you are doing it again MFTHU” she said mixed imotion ….I don’t why . Then her friend then told to stop what to me , while her friend was telling to be nice . I was still looking through the phone , then I saw her sexy pic nigga yooo?????? . Her friend saw me acting all funny after looking through the phone , I may say she saw that crazy about ALWANDE .Her friend told me to tell she’s beautiful, ALWANDE was say that I will slap you ….in a fun way , she was like I’m joking while saying that . I just blashed and kept quiet….then I told my homie AVELA he said there one chick between whose crashing on me . I was maybe her friend not her . But ALWANDE eyes too????

    But please there is more of the story it tooooo looooooong

    #SISIPHO +MXO =ALWANDE UTHANDO

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  10. I met a woman I text her she don’t text me back it takes a while she does not have eye contact once in a while she.does but I am intrigued she will let me message her legs and feet with oil what do u think

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  11. Okay so we talk on Snapchat and sometimes after swimming she will send me pictures of her by the pool she will answer my snaps sometimes right away and other times it will take her a bit. Also sometimes her friends will send me a picture of her when they hang out but she really gives mixed signals. We did talk at school to because we had all the same classes and one time we locked eyes for a long while then she turned away. Another time and a party the song single ladies came on when I was by her and her friends were pushing her telling her she needs to dance because she is a single lady. I really like her and I don’t know what to do because I want her to like me. She gives a bunch of mixed signals like sometimes she will talk then she won’t and I’m not the hottest guy at our school but I want a chance with her if it’s possible and if she at least kinda has a thing for me. I could really use your help.

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  12. So I’m High school with not a lot of friends and there’s this girl I like . To be honest we don’t talk much, she sits in front of me in one of my classes and the girl I like turns around and puts her elbow on my desk (she like rests her head on her fists ) while she’s following along with the book that our teacher reads even tho she know that I’m close to her and sometimes she draws stuff on my paper or arm ( I don’t know what that means). At lunch she has a lot her own friends and prefers to sit in a different table with me even tho there’s only 1 more person sitting with us. Is it just that she feels bad for me for not having enough friends or what?

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  13. A girl sat next to me in a lesson at school and started asking a lot of very personal questions. I am not sure if this is a good sign that she likes me though, because she accused me about liking her friend (although I don’t) a while ago when she sat on the same table of me. This was in a sort of jokey way though, so I don’t know if it is of consequence. Does anyone know how I can tell for sure if she likes me?

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  14. So this girl I like got kinda close to me, she was sitting behind me bc we were on a ATV but I scooted up and she would still get close. Is this a sign?

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  15. So there’s this girl at school I like but I’m not sure if she likes me. We have a decent amount of thing in common, and gives some of the signs here but gives me mixed signals. She smiles and talks to me when we are talking together, but that seldom is the case, and I don’t know if she does that with all her friends or not, and we’ve also only ever really communicated in a group. Also, she is fairly critical of things I do, like me overreacting at stuff (I’m spontaneous; I do this often), giving a passing remark. And often in brief meetings with more people, like entering the classroom, while she holds the door we don’t even make eye contact. But when I enter a room and it’s just us, she smiles and waves. And she has made jokes and teases to me, but mainly in the past when we interacted more. I don’t quite know her well enough, and her lack of a phone makes it hard to connect. What should I do?

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  16. Hey I’m Matthew,so there’s this girl in my class who I didn’t like before but then after sometime I developed some feeling towards her,she’s the kind of girl who always talk to other boys really close but when she is around me she turns into a different person, she will talk less with other boys and ask me some personal questions, her friends also asked me my thoughts about her, she also gave me something l liked before and if I remember correctly she hinted at wanting to hang out, but the main problem is that during class she always sits around a bunch of boys and like talk all the time so I’m not sure whether she has feelings for me or not . It’ll be nice if you can help me with this

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  17. hey so my name is jacob and theres this girl named chloe. we don’t really talk much but she laughs at my jokes (we are both in high school btw and also in 10th grade). does she like me??? she also asked for my phone number in history class and then facetimed me even though we were right next to each other. is she stupid, or does she like me?

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    • hello jacob i am charles it is nice to meet you i am in high school but nineth grade and i have had that thing happen to me a lot where a girl asks for my phone numbr and facetimes me immediately and once or twice she asked to hang out with me outside of school and we did and dated so i would say to ask her out.

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  18. There was a girl in my class that would always ask me to sit by her. She also had a friend that sat by her, and when she was there the girl that I think liked me would always talk loud, even if she wasnt talking to me. When her friend would move somewhere else she would talk to me in a whispery voice, like she was telling me a secret. There was one time where she asked me who I think she liked in that class. I named off every single boy in the class but myself and when my face started getting hot, thank the lord, my friend came over to me and started talking to me. Was all of this a sign that she liked me?

    P.S. She wrote her number in my yearbook with a heart and she had wrote “Call me!”

    P.S.S. I am very shy and she is very loud and I get a feeling that she loves making me uncomfortable because she always asked me who I liked and she would hug me at random times. She would also touch my foot and put her foot very close to the no no squar(she acted as if she didnt know she was doing it). She would also do the mirroring thing and would fiddle with her cloths alot.

    P.S.S.S. We are both 13

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  19. she has a girlfriend and she has this move that she will ask me to hang out with her secretly but with the group. if her girlfriend will be there to listen the conversation her voice change its tone it will become casual voice but if we are the only one talking her voice is soft and minimize where usually she talks to others with loud voice. she most of the time invited me to hang out than other friends around but if her girlfriend is there she will ask one of our friends to follow because they will go ahead to the place of hang out and she will instruct our common friend to bring me in the place.

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  20. Oh and also, me and her used to be totally comfortable with telling eachother about crushes on other people but now we don’t really do that. but sometimes i will walk by her and her friends and i will always hear a little bit of something like “i like–” and they’ll stop as i get close. is it because they don’t like me or what??

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  21. Hey I am currently in highschool(freshman) and there is this one girl(lets caqll her zoey) right? and like everyday we talk, she laughs with me a lot. but she is mean to me a lot as well 🙁 i don’t understand this. Then i forgot to text her back and she got mad at me and now we don’t really talk much anymore. She even told me she liked someone else but i don’t believe it. Mostly because one day in my conditioning class she thought i didn’t notice but when i was bench pressing she was staring at me, and i made eye-contact back and she looked away casually. Does she have a lot of feelings for me or?…. HELP!!!

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  22. I am seeing a girl from 4 months. We text every day but neither of us has ever expressed their liking towards each other. She tells me of her financial worries and I am taking care of that. Whenever I call her to meet she never turns it down unless if its an emergency. What and how should my next approach be. I dont like her but I love her and I am feeling scared that if I tell her this and maybe she refuses my heart will be totally broken. She is around 15 years younger to me.

    Kindly suggest

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    • It sounds like she might be with you because of her financial worries. I’m sorry to say that. It’s very hard to build a good relationship on a financial basis like that. You will just lose even more money if you keep waiting without knowing how she feels, and that will sting even harder.

      And remember that broken hearts heal too <3

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  23. I think you’re right about her just looking for your validation. She does not seem genuinely interested in you, she seems manipulative.

    You are worth better.

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  24. Hi Mr.Viktor

    I hope you can answer me considering this situation.

    I actually found my crush talking to another guy on the phone. Could it be that she is interested in him or just friends?

    This girl actually do send some signals which shows that she is interested in me.

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  25. Well I have a coworker who recently started at the job the first day she left a bit of space but did acknowledged me and asked several questions. The next day she new I was a little upset about work and offered me a hug. She’s been there for about a week and has constantly hugged me since. Hugs when she wraps her arms around my weist to hugging me from behind we do text she has started the text and I have started 1 time I told her she was cute the next day meaning today she let her hair down and she was even more stunning! I text her to say I don’t want to be a bother but let her know she was beautiful today she waited about 10 mins replying that I’m not a bother with a 😉 however she has let everyone know she is there to work not make relationships. She also said she could use a hug from me last night but I live 1 hour away from work. My problem is I’m lesbian and she to me comes off as a straight woman so I’m a bit confused as to how I should take her gestures. She knows I’m a lesbian and she has never really replied with her preference. So should I take it as she is just friendly with me because she does not act like that with others or should I just let it ride out.

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    • She’s definitely flirting with you. She even invited you home to her saying she needs a “hug”. Wow. Can’t be more obvious than that without saying it out loud.

      Don’t think too much if she’s straight or not. It’s her actions that count and they tell you that she’s interested. You got this! But take it slow since it’s a coworker and make sure you don’t have a falling out if it doesn’t work out.

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  26. Hi.. I’m unsure just need a little help please
    Ok signs I’ve seen. I’m male ten years older than her when I mention this she says that’s ok nothing wrong with that..but no mention of friends she has the same age. She’s told me many intermate things like she’s more confident with the lights off things about her exes .when we touch by accident it’s a oops like I want to but not sure if I can .from her.. also she knows I’m married but she’s single .texting is equal in length and who’s first

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