How do you know if a girl likes you or even has a crush on you? These days, it can be quite difficult to know. She may be acting friendly, but what if she’s friendly towards everyone? Is she flirting, or are you imagining it?
Some women are more outgoing than others, so they may seem like they’re flirting even when they’re not. And some are shy, so they may seem withdrawn and uninterested even if they have a huge crush! It can be pretty hard to figure out, which is why we wrote this guide.
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- Signs she likes you
- Does your best friend have a crush on you?
- How can you know for sure if a girl likes you?
47 signs she likes you
Unless a girl tells you outright that she likes you, you will have to try to understand by her context clues. When we have a crush on someone, there are usually changes in behavior around that person. Some changes are intentional (if they’re trying to show you that they are interested), while others are unintentional (due to nervousness).
The more of these signs she shows, the more likely it is that she has a crush on you, rather than just being a flirty or friendly person overall. Here are 47 signs to help tell if a girl likes you.
1. She laughs at your jokes
Laughing at your jokes can be a huge sign of interest (especially if you are not a particularly funny person…) If she smiles and laughs a lot around you, she may have a crush.
If you want to make a girl you like to laugh more, you may like to read this article on how to be funny (for un-funny people).
2. She mirrors you
Mirroring means that her body language, posture, or even what she’s saying reflects what you said or did. So if you take a sip of your glass, if she’s mirroring that, she’ll also take a sip of her glass. Or if you cross your legs and she does the same, that’s also mirroring.
Remember that mirroring is done subconsciously when she has a very good rapport with you. But it can also be done consciously if she wants to impress or bond with you. It’s a great sign either way.
3. She adds you on social media
This one means she wants to stay in touch and is at least a little bit interested in you. It also makes it much easier for you to take initiative by messaging or commenting on her posts.
4. She writes you long texts
Is she always giving you short answers, or is she giving you a small novel as a reply?
If her texts are about the same length or longer than yours, that’s great. It’s especially good if they’re longer than yours.
If you’re usually giving her long replies but not getting the same in return, it means you’re probably too eager. In that case, it’s often good to step back a bit and try to match her better. Give her some space, so she wants to come back to you again.
5. She teases you
Is it mean teasing or more flirty and light-hearted?
Most forms of teasing (even mean) are usually a sign she’s interested in you. I LOVE it when a girl I like tries to tease me. It means she’s trying to create a flirty vibe between you and that she wants a reaction from you. Just don’t take it too seriously and try to have fun with her!
6. She leans in toward you
If she’s leaning in toward you, that’s a sign she’s eager to get your attention or get her message across. And in the best case, it also means she’s eager to get closer to you.
7. She moves closer to you
If you’re in a conversation and you feel like she’s edging closer to you, or as if she’s almost uncomfortably too close to you, that’s a good sign. It could mean she’s attracted to you and wants to feel closer to you both physically and mentally.
Take note that different cultures have different “personal spaces.” So, if she’s from a different culture than you, it might just be because of that.
8. She bites her lips
Biting herself lightly on the lip is a flirty and cute (or sexy) signal. If she’s biting herself in the lip while you’re talking, that’s great. She’s probably into you.
9. She smiles at you
If she’s smiling toward you from afar, that’s an invitation to approach her. Or she’s flirting with you. (I’m assuming you didn’t just forget to put your pants on when leaving home).
If she’s smiling toward you when you’re in a conversation, that’s a sign she likes you. Especially if she has a light smile while you’re not even joking.
10. She licks her lips or teeth
Is she licking her lips or teeth? This is similar to biting her lips, but a bit more subtle and less flirty. Still a good sign she might like you.
11. She’s blinking more than normal
According to Blake Eastman, a body language expert, an increased blink rate can signify attraction[1], so it may be a good sign if you notice that she seems to be blinking more around you.
12. Her pupils are larger than normal
If her pupils get large when you’re in a conversation, you’re doing something right. This one is quite subtle because pupil size is primarily determined by light levels, but secondarily attraction can also increase pupil size.
13. She’s keeping eye contact for longer
If you notice that she’s holding eye contact slightly longer than normal, she’s probably trying to get your attention or make a connection with you. It’s a good sign that she’s interested in you. That kind of eye contact often feels more intense and can even be a bit weird or uncomfortable.
14. She’s gives you a light smile
Say that you’re all standing in a circle, and you two make eye contact when someone else is talking. Does she give you a slight smile? She probably likes you (or is a very kind person, which is also a good sign!)
Same thing if you make eye contact at a distance, in a park, or at a bar. A smile is like an invitation to start talking.
15. She looks at you with open body language
This sign is most useful at a place with some background music, such as a bar or a club.
If she’s moving in rhythm with the background music and at the same time looking at you, that can be a sign she’s attracted to you. Dancing like that and looking at you is an inviting form of body language. That tells you she wants your attention and is trying to get you to make a move.
16. She corrects her posture
Does she straighten her posture when she gets your attention or is close to you? That means she’s trying to make a good impression on you.
On the other hand, a more relaxed posture can mean that she feels comfortable around you, which can also be a good sign.
17. She faces you
If she’s facing you more often than she’s facing others in a group, that’s a sign she’s into you and values you more than others in the group. This is especially telling if you’re not even the one talking the most in the group.
18. Her feet point towards you
If her feet are pointing toward you, that’s a sign in the same line as if her body is facing you. She’s subconsciously focused on you, which makes her feet point toward you. It’s a sign of open body language.
19. She fiddles with or straightens her clothes, jewelry, or accessories
This could be because of nervosity, but it can also be because she wants to look good in front of you. It’s a classic sign of attraction.
20. Her palms are faced in your direction
If the palms of their hands are pointed in your direction, she might be interested in you. It’s a weak signal, but it’s still positive because it’s part of an open and welcoming body language she has toward you.
21. She touches you back
For example, if you touch her arm, does she touch you in a similar area later on in the conversation? If she does reciprocate your touch, that’s a great sign, but it also depends on if she’s touchy with most people or just you.
Keep in mind that shy girls usually don’t touch back because they’re so afraid of messing up.
22. She touches you when you talk
Common areas to touch are arms, shoulders, back, hands, or thighs. Hands or thighs are usually more intimate if she touches those. Some girls aren’t so comfortable with touch, and it takes them a while to warm up. So if she doesn’t touch you, it isn’t necessarily a sign that she doesn’t like you if she shows many other signs on the list.
23. You have “peripheral physical contact”
Peripheral physical contact is when some parts of your body are in contact with each other when you are doing something else.
For example, if you’re both sitting down and your thighs are barely touching each other. Or if you’re walking side by side and she grabs hold of your arm. That kind of passive physical contact means a lot and can build a lot of tension and attraction.
24. She’s giving you more of her attention
For example, if she directs most of her attention when you’re in a group. Or if she’s only asking you questions or if she’s laughing more than others at your jokes.
The more attention she gives you, the more interested she usually is in you.
25. She blushes
Does she blush when you talk or make eye contact? She might be shy, but she’s probably a bit self-conscious around you because she likes you.
26. She looks at you from afar
Girls are often a bit sneaky when they want to check you out. They can make it seem like they’re only looking in your direction or just grazing you with their eyes. I’ve even seen girls using window reflections to check out a guy (and to check if he’s looking at them). Sunglasses are even sneakier.
So if she’s looking in your direction, especially if she does it several times, she’s probably checking you out.
27. She keeps the conversation going
What happens when you stop talking or can’t come up with anything to say? If she seems eager to get the conversation going again, that’s good. If she excuses herself, she may not be that interested.
Click here to read my full guide on how to talk to girls.
28. She always replies
Does she always reply when you call or text?
Quicker responses are often a sign of interest. But many girls are so afraid of appearing needy that they delay their response even if they like you.
29. She texts or calls you first
If she’s often the one initiating, that’s a very strong sign she’s into you.
But if she never calls or texts first, that shows a lack of interest. In that case, it can be good to take a step back to see if she will take initiative when you don’t do it before she even has the chance.
30. She texts you often
Compare this to how often you text her. It’s the same principle as matching the length of her texts. She’s eager if she’s texting more often than you, and you’re eager if you’re the one texting more often.
31. She stammers, stutters, or forgets what she was about to say
Does she seem nervous when you guys are having a conversation? This could mean she’s a bit extra shy or self-conscious around you, which tells you that she might also be a bit extra interested in you.
32. She doesn’t back off when you get closer
If she doesn’t even flinch when you get a bit too close to her personal space, that’s a sign she wants you close to her.
If you take a step closer, and she backs off by a step, that’s a sign she’s a bit more reserved toward you.
33. She talks about future plans
Planning or mentioning things they want to do with you in the future strongly indicates some sort of interest, romantic or platonic.
For example, if you’re talking about a newly opened restaurant, they say, “We should go there someday!” or “I’ll show you how amazing that place is!” If you’re talking about art and she wants to share her work, that’s a good sign too.
34. She’s pleased with your commonalities
How does she react when she finds out that you have something in common? If she’s happy, that’s good. This sign is extra strong if it’s something very trivial, like that you live in the same part of town, you’re the same age, or you both like pizza.
35. She asks you personal questions
If she is, that’s telling you that she wants to know more about you and is interested in you. The more she asks, the better.
For example, asking about your plans for the future, your childhood, or just about your favorite food. Asking you questions is literally showing interest in you.
36. She asks about your plans
Asking about your plans for the day or weekend might just be empty small talk, but it could also be her trying to open a window where you can meet again and hang out. It’s more likely it’s a sign of interest if she brings it up near the end of the conversation.
37. She seems embarrassed if you two are the only two people left in a situation
If she does but doesn’t do anything to leave the situation, that means she’s just a bit shy but still interested.
A classic example is if you meet her with her girlfriends at a bar, and then all her friends leave, but she stays. That’s perfect because it also means her friends approve of you.
38. She tells her friends or family about you
This one is most relevant once you’ve already started dating. But it’s such a huge sign of interest (and approval) that I thought it was worth mentioning. It’s even bigger if she’s from a culture where approval from the family is important.
If she’s told her family, it means she is visualizing and planning a future with you. Congrats!
If she just told her friends, that’s also great, but not as big as her family.
39. She offers you a massage
Offering a massage is a nice thing to do, but it’s also a smooth way for a girl to get you both touching each other. (Remember to offer her one back if you like her!)
40. She reschedules when she can’t make a date
Say you were meant to meet up with her, but she cancels. How can you know if she truly couldn’t make it or if she just isn’t interested?
Life happens, and everyone has to change or cancel plans sometimes. If she tries to reschedule when she cancels, it’s a good sign she is interested in you and had to cancel for legitimate reasons.
41. She compliments you
If she gives you positive feedback, it’s a good sign she likes you. While teasing can also be a sign she likes you, some women are more prone to compliment a guy they like, and many do both.
42. She gives you small gifts
Does she pick up things for you or give you gifts or trinkets? That’s a sign that she’s thinking about you and wants to make you feel good. For example, if you’ve mentioned that you have a weakness for pastries, and she shows up with a croissant the next time you meet up, that’s a really good sign that she likes you.
43. She follows up on things you tell her
Remembering that you said you have a test coming up and asking how it went is a sign that she takes you seriously and also that she wants you to know that she listens to you and cares.
44. She lets you know she’s single
Bringing up the fact that she’s single could be a way for her to let you know that she’s available and interested.
45. She asks for your help
Asking for your help can be a way to spend more time with you and establish a connection. It can also be a way for her to check how responsive and helpful you are to get an idea of how you would behave as a romantic partner.
46. She opens up to you
Asking you questions about yourself shows that she’s interested and wants to learn more about you. Sharing things about herself is a sign that she trusts you and wants to get closer to you.
47. She has a nickname for you
Giving you a nickname can be a flirty way to show that she likes you.
Does your best friend have a crush on you?
It can be more difficult to figure out these signs if you’re already friends with someone. If you’re close friends, she probably already texts you, tells you about her life, teases you, spends time with you, and so on. How can you know if it’s just friendship or if there’s more going on?
Is she acting differently from how she usually behaves? If there’s a sudden change in her behavior towards you, it may be a sign that her feelings have changed. On the other hand, if her behavior has changed in all aspects of life, it may have nothing to do with you.
Does she seem jealous or dismissive of other girls you might like? Is she suddenly extra touchy-feely? Is she unusually interested in your interests? These changes may indicate that her feelings towards you are shifting or that she’s trying to work out what she feels.
Those are all signs your best friend might have started liking you as more than a friend.
How do you know for sure if she’s interested?
You can’t know for sure if she’s interested based on a sign on this list. But there are a few rules you can use to help you know:
- Is she regularly showing you different signs of interest?
- Does she act differently to others than to you? (So she’s not just flirty with everyone.)
- Has she shown any particularly strong signs of interest?
The only one to know for sure is to check with her. Let her know you are interested and see if the feeling is mutual.
Are you still unsure if she likes you?
Write it down in the comments below in as much detail as possible for other commenters to help you out. I’ll also respond to a few of the most interesting comments. But I can’t keep up with all the comments alone, so try to help others by answering them too. Poorly written comments with bad grammar will be deleted.
I met a girl about one month ago just within one week she wanted to be my best friend since then we have been chatting every day at least 4 times in a week we talk on call for like 3 hours in the night plus we meet 6 days a week at college we are always together but she has other male friends also but she talks to me the most. When I am down she says me to share and try to make me feel happy she is always there for me and mostly notices it when I am really feeling down. Whenever we walk then our shoulders always brush together she gets excited when she sees me and whenever I crack a joke she always sends the laughing emoji. She tells me her routine what she usually does throughout the day and whenever a message her she replies within 1 hour. We talk about life and in some things we are quite similar to the hates those who I also hate. She loves to call me by my nickname. She says whenever I’m bored I can call her and talk to her. Now the thing is that she has many guy friends the difference is that she spends more time with me sometimes than them and keeps a little distance for example she does not touch them or her shoulders does not brush them that much as much her shoulders do to me we. She sometimes leaves her friends and call me to walk with me alone for like 10 or 15 mins. And she always texts me when she is feeling sad. She doesn’t mention her guy friends around me. Her friends are also my friends. When I first met she used the word bro a lot but now she doesn’t. Now the thing is I cannot tell if she is into me or she likes me as a best friend.
@Tahir
I was in a similar situation. Met this girl in high school, freshman year. The second week of school, she comes up to me and says “Can we be friends” and lm like yeah. A week goes on, she calls me her best friend. She and I, talked a lot and a lot of similar things like you. Later on (like 2 years later or 1?) I ask her who she had like back then, (she told me freshman year she liked someone but never really told me who) and responded and said it was me. Again, very similar things like in your situation. I would go for it if I’m being honest. I’d go like, “Hey, I just wanted to let you know, I’ve really enjoyed being with you and sharing many times together, and if I’m being honest, I like you, not just as a best friend, but more than that. I understand if you don’t feel the same and I don’t want this to ruin our existing relationship. But I just had to let you know.” A bit to long, but it really can warm up someone’s heart. Please keep me updated and good luck brother (:!
Bro you’re awesome at this stuff
No nonverbal signal from any woman would be enough for me to approach her. The potential for misunderstanding is too high and as a man, any misinterpretation on either person’s part would be my fault. I would never put myself in a position where I could be accused. I’d far rather be with a beautiful woman but since it’s always been clear that no woman could be attracted to me, the only option is to keep my feelings to myself and never tell a woman I like her.
Buddy that’s not a good mindset. You should work on yourself before dismissing yourself that easily.
Me and this chick were dating and we got suspended from school for having pot on us and we hung out after school that day she said the reason I broke up with u is bcuz u not my type but then the next day I’m at her place our legs are touching and she puts her head on my shoulder 3 times and let me put my head on hers. what To do
Ask her out
Just go for it mate
Ask her out
I got u
She shows 6-7 signs…
What is its meaning?
Look I’m no doctor but just try to have a conversation with her
This girl continues to ask me about the time.
Please help idk how I should take this
I mean she probably does like u, y would she keep asking U the time if she can check for herself? She probably wants u to start a conversation with her!
I have been friends with a girl for a few years. She’s out of the country for a while with her family. She went through a bad breakup and we didn’t talk for a while. But now we FaceTime once maybe twice a week. She initiates the calls about as much as I do. The last time we FaceTimed she was really giggly and laughing and making fun of me. We talked about how she makes more money than I do right now and she said oh I guess that means I’m buying dinner and drinks. I told her about running into a girl I went to high school with and we hung out. She started asking a lot of questions and then tried to stalk her on Instagram right in front of me. She said maybe you should take her to the symphony (something she and I talked about doing when she gets back). I told her where the girl lived and she said oh that’s my stomping grounds. She even referred to me as sweetie which she’s never done before then when I called her out she said oh I mean buddy, pal.l but was smiling and making a joke about it. The next day I tried to text her and she was a little short with me which I’ve read that girls do that if they’re feeling something as a way to process. Am I Crazy or does this all sound like she’s giving off signals?
She’s looking at me a lot and when I look back at her she looks away she also asked me who I like and I said nobody
She did also ask if I like her and I said no but I added her on Snapchat Then she randomly said that she doesn’t know me too well. Idk if she has feeling’s but she Still wanna get to know me better.
yeah same thing bro
So, I’m in high school and I really like this girl! She’s given me lots of signs that she likes me! But I still don’t know! I have noticed that she stares at me, changes her personality when I’m around (to a teasing, sarcastic mood. Just for fun and to make me laugh) she laughs at my jokes even if they are not too funny. So this leaves me wondering… Should I confess?
Yes!!!!!!! Shoot your shot
same here there’s this girl at my school I really like her but she has a boyfriend but she tends to look at me during snack and lunch
She’s constantly looking me in the eyes and playing with her hair
I’m in middle school right now (even though I live in Australia) and there’s this girl who sits sort of close to me. She usually flicks a glance at me every now and then but doesn’t smile. She also seems to walk a bit closer to me than other people. Is this a sign that she likes me or just wants to talk to me?
Please guys help me time is ticking
Yea she definitely likes you. Buh note this; she may form hard to get
So, high school started 8 weeks ago and I know this girl that I’ve spoken to sometimes in 8th grade but we haven’t made conversation, only small talk. But I’ve noticed this girl looking at me a lot in 8th grade, and while our school was hybrid she followed me on Instagram, so I followed her back,
(Common sense).
She then started telling me things such as, I look like geared way From mcr or John bender from the breakfast club, she was grunge mixed with indie girl
I’m a grunge kid also so it makes sense, I’m getting off-topic.
So I’ve been going to study hall after lunch and she had recently been sitting next to me when her seat was in the front row of the desks, and she would be applying one of those chap lip things to her and putting gum in her mouth as if she’s trying to make a good impression. She’s also asked me to hang out with her and her friends does she like me or does she want to be my friend.
Ok, so I have this friend who is very religious. She says she is straight but shows all these signs she likes me. Whenever I’m with her, the vibe feels very different than how it does if I’m with a normal friend. She blushes when she talks to me, asks me very personal questions about marriage, dating, and where I want to live in the future. She also gave me a book about astrology that she bought because it reminded me of her, and surprised me with my favorite snack from Trader Joe’s. I’ve only been friends with her for a year, and these things are done within months of knowing her. I feel a sort of romantic tension between us. She says she’s straight but I feel like she’s hiding something, because what is with these signs? Am I being crazy or is something there?
I think she’s scared of telling you what is on her mind but you can kindly ask her stylishly for her to confess to you. you can ask her on an outing to know what is on her mind. thanks
So there’s this girl I like. And when we were doing walking. With some other people in my group. I tripped and fell over and some stuff came out of my bag. So then I put the stuff in my bag. And couldn’t zip the bag up. So she helped me. And she also told the other people in my group to stop being rude to me. Also when we walked into this field of cows. One of the people in my group agitated them so the cows came over. And the people in my group tried to stop them. And she told me to come with her. So can you tell me what all of this means?
So I and this girl have been talking for a bit, and we always have long periods of eye contact, even among our friend group, and she always seems to smile while we talk. I also noted that even when talking in a group she faces me and stares at me more than the other people there. Because we wear masks, I can’t really see any other facial expressions. But we did go out and get coffee twice, she paid for mine once and I paid for hers the other time. And recently she started talking about things she finds romantic (i.e. it was raining and she said she thought the rain was romantic as we were walking together).
Are these signs I should try and take her on a date soon or is that too little to go off of?
You should go get this girl! I have a strong feeling she may like you back!
So I am talking with a girl somewhat frequently. When we are together, we typically stare into each other’s eyes for a prolonged period of time, even when we are with our group, and often smile. We are usually wearing our masks because of the pandemic, but a smile is still visible. I can’t tell about any other mouth-related signs though. We talk about things we like and dislike, and we went and picked up coffee together twice just the two of us, though not as a date or anything, and she bought mine the first time and I bought hers the second time. And recently she started talking about things she thinks are romantic. And I think to some extent she is comfortable around me, but I’m not sure to what extent.
Should I try asking her out on a formal date based on that info, or is that too little to do anything with?
Try asking her out so you can kindly feel comfortable and ask her what she likes about you maybe through that you can get what you need from her. I think she’s interested in your
Hey my name is Anna so about this prob be honest and approach her she may like u take the first step u no she can’t read ur heart
I think Anna is very right.
I like a girl on the bus who I asked out last week. She said yes but 5 min later she broke up. Ever since I have been getting VERY small hints that she likes me. Although I caught her looking and when I looked she kept eye contact. But in spite of me being nervous, I looked away. I asked her out to homecoming and she said that she may not be going but will tell me if she’s going. Then things went dark and nothing really happened. Then today she started having conversations with me. Idk what to do nothing is a clear answer I can’t tell whether or not I should move on or if I’m on the right track and should keep going. Before I lose my mind pls help me.
Forgot to mention there were several rumors as to why she broke up but there are no clear answers as usual.
so i just met this girl on a fortnite discord community im in and she did texted 1st which i know is a good sign but now, while in a middle of a match, i felt like i know her in past life and now i feel worried about her…
what does this mean? i mean we just met and everything so idk!!
Ok, so you chatted on discord and then while playing Fortnite (which by the way sucks) you magically knew her past life. Pls explain further. Thx
There is this girl I like but I haven’t approach her yet but now her best friend likes me but I don’t have the same emotions for her and I really want to ask her friend out but am afraid she might hear it and may feel I used bcuz I have done things with her so I need response to no the way forward ????????????
Next time you meet with the girl you said, make sure you ask her out before it’s too late for you to recommend. And you let the other one that likes you that you are in love with her friend
No woman is attracted to me so there are no signals to read. To think otherwise would be delusional. I am attracted to several women, but there is no point in expressing this to them for the same reason. The best [only] option is to keep my feelings to myself.
I feel this. I move often and have never seen the point in high school relationships. Keep trucking.
sorry its a bit long but will really appreciate your reply will mean alot to me.There was this my family friend I use to talk to. So around last year October we started talking talking alot in such a way we started going deep. In ways that she asked me if I had a girl friend and I said no and I asked her the same and she told me she has never dated she’s 21years and I’m 25. She sent me her pictures sometimes without me asking. And when I asked for hers sometimes, and she says I have to send mine first. We chat and make calls till midnight and and she told me she liked me twice ( the first time I asked her if she liked me she said “yeah sometimes you are cool”) she’s a shy girl. I asked her jokingly if she would be my valentine and she said “sure if you are taking me out”. I didn’t take her out on valentine because I was busy but I found time a month later and took her out twice in a week she was very happy and said we need to do more of that. I knew she was happy because she was nervous and even when I tried to snap her for the first time she kept on laughing she couldn’t stay with a straight face all the pictures were of her laughing. Sometimes we have have fight because I act insecure. So we had a fight like towards the end may and I shouted at her and told her talking to her was a mistake I regret knowing her and she told me the same thing, and she disconnected the phone on me. I sent her a message never to call me again and I hate her and we stopped talking. that happened like 26th of may 2021. I also unfriended her on Snapchat and unfollowed her on Instagram but she never unfollowed me (even though I told her I did unfollowed her).
After like 2weeks that’s like 15th June 2021 she sent me a dm but deleted it after like 20mins then I called her and asked her politely what she sent, she started acting up saying it was a mistake. That why did I even call her, didn’t I say I wasn’t going to call her again that I shouldn’t call her again she doesn’t like me and she never said she did blah blah blah. So I left her. I went no contact for 6 weeks and then called called her again the phone ranged for like 1second and she picked the call so fast she was talking with me but was still trying to acted angry like she wasn’t interested lol, we talked for like 10mins and I disconnected the call. Then I called her again after 3days around 8pm she didn’t pick my call but called me back twice around 12:30am. Then I called her back the next day and when she picked up she told me that that she didn’t call me I said she did and she said it was a mistake(she called me twice lol) then she brought back what happened months back and was telling me I said I will never call her that I should think about all what I told her and I’m acting like everything is normal that she doesn’t even know why I’m calling her e.t.c she kept complaining for like 20mins straight I just laughed about it because I have learnt my mistakes and acted indifferent to her emotions. After that we ended the call so last week I called her the last time and she acted normal we laughed and I asked her if she’s dating now she told no she’s not dating. We teased each other other abit and laughed about it. Then I called her one last time again she was on a call, when she was done I asked her to call me back she didn’t she said she’s not in the mood (lol she just finished making calls with only god knows who and shes telling me she’s not in the mood to talk) that I can’t be calling her everyday like before. Then I simply told her “I want to be calling you when I want it’s either that or I don’t call you ever again” she said she never said I should never call her but u should be calling once in a while. I said I don’t want that and asked her for the second time should I stop calling her totally? She said she didn’t say I should stop calling her I should once in a while. So it’s been one week now and I don’t intend to call her again till she contacts me. Mind you I have never asked her to be my girlfriend but I do have feelings for her. What I need to know from you please is does she have feelings for me, and does she still cares for me? P.S there was a time she asked me if I loved her and I joked about it and avoided the question because I wasn’t that into her.
First, say you’re sorry but Be her friend for a little while find out her interests find out what you have in common, does she like sports music dancing anything. then do something you both like or are both interested in but don’t rush you don’t want to sound too desperate and the relationship will grow from there
What do you do if your crush, after talking to her, seems a bit annoyed, and curt with her answers. Almost as if she isn’t making an effort to keep the conversation alive. But when around other people, she talks with more alertness?
means she’s not sure about you. she thinks you are too eager but there’s some interest. best solution, let her see you with other girls and don’t reply her texts right away. 2-3 days with “oh i was busy. what’s up”
Their is this girl i met in the firpt time i saw her i fell for her. After somedays she begin to show me the sign above we went out alot on one nigth i finaly tell her how i feel about her but she did not reply me. The next day she begin to ignore me the newt thing i saw her with another guy which is my best friend i need u advice on what to do should i leave her alone or should i aproach her?
shoot yyour shot you never know girls
Ss thanks
Ss theres this girl named cathryn she was nice to me she talked to me then i told her that i like her then she was silent saw her 4 more times after that only the 3rd time she smiled and said something to me since then i haven’t seen her yet since then
So I and this girl were in a group and after a year we became closer than before. When we are closed from meetings even if her house is in the opposite direction she will at least excort me my brother and my friends half way home talking to me mostly she is always looking for my trouble . Later I started liking her and when I told her I like her all she said was she does not want then she stopped talking to me and avoiding me. One day she stopped avoiding me and talked to me and even smiled at me on that day . I still like her but don’t know what to think anymore
So I met this beautiful ,really intelligent ,sweet girl at Starbucks. The first time I spoke to her, there was something kind almost magical about how I felt we were both interacting. ….And even though I don’t see her very often …whenever I do she always makes sure that she spends time talking to me and looks at me in a way that I’m almost positive she really really likes me. She even has a nickname for me which I don’t know I’ve ever had a girl do that. I have done very well with women and I really feel I know when they like me …but, I sometimes still get scared. I finally worked up the courage to actually go directly in to see her… she came up called me my nickname even stuttered …talked to me for a few minutes and then went back to her work. Now I understand that she needs to do her job but, after our interaction she never looked at me again until I walked out of the door where I could see her looking at me. Do you have any advice on this because right now I don’t want to go through any more rejection…???
She likes you, or she wouldn’t keep approaching you. But then she gets nervous and flustered and backs away. I’m guessing she feels the same as you – interested, but afraid to overstep. Try asking for her help with something, for instance, helping you decide between two gifts for a family member. You can show them to her on your phone and get her leaning in close and see if she’s comfortable with that or if she takes the phone out of your hand to get some distance. Also, asking for her help conveys that you value her opinion, it gives her an opportunity to follow up on another day and ask how it’s going with picking out the gift. You can joke with her and say you’re still having trouble, and that you’re going to have to take her shopping with you. If she responds positively, as if she would go shopping with you, then she likes you. If she just laughs then stays silent, or just changes the subject, then she’s probably not interested. This way you can get a better sense of her feelings without risking direct rejection if you ask her out.
Well i don’t know i dont really get the memo
So. I have a dilema.
Two girls at school I like. Both show 40% of the signs. One has friendzoned me and one was in a relationship but while they don’t talk anymore, I have no idea whether it’s on or off. First stared at me alot and is very talkative around me. When we are alone she is a lot more relaxed and lets down walls of atitude. She has always had a soft spot for me. Second is generaly confident but is nervous around me, plays with her hair and kinda asked me if I had phone number. Unfortunatley I still live with the dinosaurs and only have discord. Their both really nice to me. Me and the second agree alot, while the first andI have healthy competition. Pls help before I lose my mind!!!
Go for the second one to play it safe, but act interested in both of them when their both around. They will get jealous of each other and be more interested in you. Also, the jealousy will be more long term if you keep hanging out with both of them even after you’re with one (remember to hang out with both at the same time, but NEVER invite them both to the same place). Also, if you want to make the relationship more long term, stop talking with the other one because it will show that your dedicated.
Thanks sommuch dude. Been stressing for past couple of months about this issue. Will try when out of lockdown.
Just chillax and follow your heart
This girl said on the phone she wants me to come to the club wit her on he 18th birthday her brother said she said I’m good looking her brother said we ganna smoke at his house she said no not you just me and him her brother said we ganna rent a limo the girl said yea and it’s only ganna be me and him in it she gave me her number she always ask me how I’m doing and she asks me if I’m ok so then I went to see her in person and she acted all shy and she said she’s blushing 2 times and I asked her to sit with me she said it’s to hot then she said let’s go in the front so we did and there was only one chair so she sat in it and I was over her shoulder cus she was showing me and her brother videos then her brother left and she said can you give me space your all up over here but I’m not feeling uncomfortable it’s just I like space then she went in the back and was upset about something her mom said and she just acted like she doesn’t like me but in the phone it’s different and she said she’s blushing 2 times in person and this was are first time seeing each other in person so does she like me?