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Kirsty Britz, M.A.

Kirsty Britz has a Master’s degree in Psychology from the University of New York in Prague, Training in Person-Centered Counselling, and a Career Coaching Certification. Read more.
21 Best Books On Emotional Intelligence (Reviewed 2022)

21 Best Books On Emotional Intelligence (Reviewed 2022)

November 24, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.

Emotional intelligence is the ability to manage your own emotions and respond to the emotions of others in a positive way. It was first studied in the 90’s by researchers … Read more

11 Simple Ways to Start Building Self-Discipline Right Now

11 Simple Ways to Start Building Self-Discipline Right Now

September 14, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.

Self-discipline is difficult to master. It can be discouraging when you have the best of intentions but tend to fall short of what you set out to do. Research shows … Read more

How to Be Mentally Strong (What It Means, Examples, & Tips)

How to Be Mentally Strong (What It Means, Examples, & Tips)

September 14, 2022July 21, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.Last updated September 14, 2022

Throughout life, people face challenges of all kinds. While some will inevitably suffer more than others, everyone has a choice in how they respond to adversity. Either they can allow … Read more

12 Signs Your Friend Doesn’t Care About You (And What To Do)

12 Signs Your Friend Doesn’t Care About You (And What To Do)

September 14, 2022July 4, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.Last updated September 14, 2022

The difference between healthy and toxic friendships is that in healthy friendships, unspoken expectations are met.[1] There is equal give and take, as well as mutual support and mutual investment.[1] … Read more

How to Stop Chasing People (And Why We Do It)

How to Stop Chasing People (And Why We Do It)

December 20, 2022July 4, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.Last updated December 20, 2022

Any relationship, whether romantic or platonic, cannot thrive without there being relatively equal give and take.[1] Relationships provide people with a sense of belonging, but when affection is one-sided, the … Read more

16 Thank You Messages for Friends (Thoughtful & Meaningful)

16 Thank You Messages for Friends (Thoughtful & Meaningful)

June 28, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.

Having remarkable friends makes life that much more meaningful. Good friends enrich our lives by being there for us when we need them most. Whether it’s to lend a helping … Read more

How to Support a Struggling Friend (In Any Situation)

How to Support a Struggling Friend (In Any Situation)

August 13, 2022June 27, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.Last updated August 13, 2022

Knowing how to offer support to a friend who is going through a difficult time can be challenging. If you haven’t been through what your friend is going through, it … Read more

How to Save a Dying Conversation Over Text: 15 No-Needy Ways

How to Save a Dying Conversation Over Text: 15 No-Needy Ways

June 22, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.

Deciding whether to revive a dead text conversation is a catch-22. You don’t want the other person to assume you’re ignoring them or that you’re uninterested if you stop responding. … Read more

How to Find a Social Anxiety Support Group (That Suits You)

How to Find a Social Anxiety Support Group (That Suits You)

August 6, 2022June 17, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.Last updated August 6, 2022

Having social anxiety can make you feel completely alone, like this must be a “you” problem. But statistics show that 6.8% of adults and 9.1% of teens in America have … Read more

12 Ways to Impress Your Friends (According to Psychology)

12 Ways to Impress Your Friends (According to Psychology)

August 17, 2022June 16, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.Last updated August 17, 2022

Impressing other people is not as difficult as it may seem. Contrary to what you might think, you don’t need to be super smart or talented to win the affection … Read more

No One to Talk to? What to Do Right Now (And How to Cope)

No One to Talk to? What to Do Right Now (And How to Cope)

August 8, 2022June 15, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.Last updated August 8, 2022

Research from neuroscience shows that, as humans, we are wired for social connection.[1] So it’s no surprise that feeling like we have nobody to talk to can leave us with … Read more

How to Stop Overthinking (11 Ways to Get Out of Your Head)

How to Stop Overthinking (11 Ways to Get Out of Your Head)

September 15, 2022June 14, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.Last updated September 15, 2022

When you’re a chronic overthinker, your mind never stops. Today it could be overanalyzing the past; tomorrow, it could be worrying about the future. It’s exhausting. All you want is … Read more

How to Start a Conversation with a Guy (IRL, Text & Online)

How to Start a Conversation with a Guy (IRL, Text & Online)

June 10, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.

Starting a conversation with a guy you like can feel super awkward, whether it’s in-person or online. In general, you might be quite a confident person, but when it comes to … Read more

How to Make Friends as a Transfer Student

How to Make Friends as a Transfer Student

August 11, 2022June 7, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.Last updated August 11, 2022

Making meaningful friendships comes with its challenges, but as a transfer student at a new high school or college, it can be especially difficult. You may have met people here … Read more

How To Start a Conversation with a Girl (IRL, Text, Online)

How To Start a Conversation with a Girl (IRL, Text, Online)

June 7, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.

Thinking about how to approach and talk to the girl you like can be enough to drive you crazy, whether it’s in-person, over text, or online. It feels like there … Read more

How to Change the Subject in a Conversation (With Examples)

How to Change the Subject in a Conversation (With Examples)

August 12, 2022May 26, 2022 Kirsty Britz, M.A.Last updated August 12, 2022

Have you ever found yourself mid-conversation with someone and suddenly started feeling super awkward? Perhaps you were talking to someone and they asked you a question that was a bit … Read more

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