How to be more interesting (if you don’t automatically get noticed)
How do you stand out and catch people’s interest if you’re not super charismatic or have an amazing life?
That’s what you learn in our course Invisible to Interesting.
This course is for you who…
- Feel like you aren’t interesting (and don’t automatically get noticed)
- Worry that you’ll bore or bother people
- Don’t know what to say, and because of that feel like you don’t have much of a personality
- Feel uncomfortable sharing about yourself
- Feel like you lack knowledge or experience, and don’t want to look stupid or like you don’t know stuff, so you avoid engaging in conversation
- Feel like you’re bragging when you do talk about your experiences
At first i thought SUPERFICIALLY that this video and lesson is the same as the one You sent on Jan 6,
then i carefully compared the two and saw the new lesson
Yes people i converse with do not like me if i act like a nerd
i need this course to make them like me at such times
Also i have found that when people around me feel blue they JUST CLAM UP and don’t talk to me
But WHEN i felt blue i longed for someone to talk to to get out of it
i FEEL the problem is to get talking with them in the right way
i need lessons for this
At first i thought SUPERFICIALLY that this video and lesson is the same as the one You sent on Jan 6,
then i carefully compared the two and saw the new lesson
Yes people i converse with do not like me if i act like a nerd
i need this course to make them like me at such times
Also i have found that when people around me feel blue they JUST CLAM UP and don’t talk to me
But WHEN i felt blue i longed for someone to talk to to get out of it
i FEEL the problem is to get talking with them in the right way
i need lessons for this
Hi david thankyou for what you do :)Well an issue I have is sometimes I want to say experiences I have had and people lose interest and I tend to forget where I was at and stumble and say and then or well .Please help me be confident in saying my stories without feeling inferior and getting nervous if they do
Hi david thankyou for what you do :)Well an issue I have is sometimes I want to say experiences I have had and people lose interest and I tend to forget where I was at and stumble and say and then or well .Please help me be confident in saying my stories without feeling inferior and getting nervous if they do
In my next email I’ll talk about a method you can use when conversations hit a wall. It works very well when you head goes blank. Glad to have you on board 🙂
Hi Kaersten,
This guide has some chapters that I think are relevant to you! https://socialself.com/blog/learn-how-to-be-more-outgoing/
David
Hi Kaersten,
This guide has some parts that I think are relevant to you! https://socialself.com/blog/learn-how-to-be-more-outgoing/
David
In my next email I’ll talk about a method you can use when conversations hit a wall. It works very well when you head goes blank. Glad to have you on board 🙂
Thanks alot David, that was a nice video and I learned alot. I have this issue of going blank while conversating with my friends and it sucks because I feel there’s more to say but I find it difficult to speak or say something funny. Would be grateful if u could be of help.
Thanks alot David, that was a nice video and I learned alot. I have this issue of going blank while conversating with my friends and it sucks because I feel there’s more to say but I find it difficult to speak or say something funny. Would be grateful if u could be of help.
I’d like to learn how to be less serious and more open when having conversations… more “energetic” when talking to people.
I’d like to learn how to be less serious and more open when having conversations… more “energetic” when talking to people.
I’d like to get better at asking certain types of questions at the appropriate time in a conversation. Sometimes I just don’t know what to say; my mind literally goes blank, and I get nervous. I want to learn how to move past this nervousness and be completely comfortable when talking with anyone, and in any setting.
I’d like to get better at asking certain types of questions at the appropriate time in a conversation. Sometimes I just don’t know what to say; my mind literally goes blank, and I get nervous. I want to learn how to move past this nervousness and be completely comfortable when talking with anyone, and in any setting.
Hi Nick!
My next email will be about how to avoid conversations hitting a wall, think you’ll like it!
David
Hi Nick!
My next email will be about how to avoid conversations hitting a wall, think you’ll like it!
David
Hi David, I really enjoyed the small talk video that you posted! I have a similar comment to what Mathis said. I want to be more at ease and relaxed, I feel as if my mind races automatically and there is very little space for the current moment, and that usually produces anxiety. The strange thing is, I am beginning to feel that with my close friends. Intellectually I know what I am doing wrong, but often I can’t help but feel like I am hitting a wall for one reason or the other. Anyway, that’s my two cents. Thank you for all your good advice!
Hi David, I really enjoyed the small talk video that you posted! I have a similar comment to what Mathis said. I want to be more at ease and relaxed, I feel as if my mind races automatically and there is very little space for the current moment, and that usually produces anxiety. The strange thing is, I am beginning to feel that with my close friends. Intellectually I know what I am doing wrong, but often I can’t help but feel like I am hitting a wall for one reason or the other. Anyway, that’s my two cents. Thank you for all your good advice!
Great, thanks for replying. I’ll look forward to it.
Great, thanks for replying. I’ll look forward to it.
Hey David,
Cool video! Aside from what you covered in this video, I would like to
get better at sharing myself more. I have a hard time being vulnerable
and sharing what’s personal to me.
Hi, your video was quite helpful and well structured with good real life examples.
My main problems (which possibly aren’t the exact topics you’re addressing) are that I can never feel like myself around people, even though I try to be honest and open in conversations. I generally always feel like I want to run away and hide, and I can’t wait until I can be on my own again and not having to deal with people.
We’ll be talking about how to balance conversations the coming weeks 🙂
Hi Sarah! I think you’ll like this: https://socialself.com/blog/make-interesting-conversation/
I forget names easily
I forget names easily
Hi René, good idea. Can I practise with you too?
I’m not having a problem knowing what to say really, and I think my conversations flow pretty well. But I’m uncertain when I’m at the point where I’m talking too much. I’d like to be able to know when people have had enough of me 🙂
I’m not having a problem knowing what to say really, and I think my conversations flow pretty well. But I’m uncertain when I’m at the point where I’m talking too much. I’d like to be able to know when people have had enough of me 🙂
hey maria i can be your friend ! Let’s put in practice what we learn here in SocialPro .
Hi Maria, glad to have you with us! Just saying that you want to improve is the first step, I hope you will find our videos and articles helpful on your journey 🙂
my goal is to just get at least 1 new friend. im tired of being lonely. it just feels like nobody has any time to meet up anymore 🙁
my goal is to just get at least 1 new friend. im tired of being lonely. it just feels like nobody has any time to meet up anymore 🙁
The thing I’d like to improve is to findd a natural way to get a conversation going. Conversations just fizzle out and I don’t know what to say.
The thing I’d like to improve is to findd a natural way to get a conversation going. Conversations just fizzle out and I don’t know what to say.
Hi Sarah! I think you’ll like this: https://socialself.com/blog/make-interesting-conversation/
I just want to be more at ease and to be able to enjoy meeting new people. I think Im pretty relaxed with my old friends, but I just seem to blank out with anyone I dont know.
I just want to be more at ease and to be able to enjoy meeting new people. I think Im pretty relaxed with my old friends, but I just seem to blank out with anyone I dont know.