Did you know that just by writing a goal down, you become 42% more likely to reach that goal?
Challenge: Write down one small step you could take in your next social interaction. It should be something that feels exciting, not terrifying.
Check the comments below for inspiration. If someone writes something you like, let them know in the comments that they have your support.
Next time I will be in a group conversation , I’ll try to participate by joining into it when it is the right time without making an awkward situation with my opinion.
I could suggest a girls night in with my friend, Scarlett, in the next month.
I want to be myself, confidant and don’t want to be bothered if someone likes me or not . Feel free around strangers .
I would like to invite someone to hang out with I haven’t spent prolonged one-on-one time with before, and just be relaxed and enjoy the conversation.
I want to be able to talk more about myself without feeling guilty
I will act like everyone likes me and be more relaxed and also put all my focus on the person I am talking with.
I get a bit nervous when a conversation gets awkward..I’ll beat that by finding sth funny in the moment to distract the tension.
I would like to vibe with the moment and get the talking going on, take that step without letting my fear take over my thoughts and feelings and keep the person accompanied and also let them feel that they can connect with me.
And also I would like to put that effort into my professional life and get going. one step at a time and do better for me and achieve all my goals and stay focused
Become more confident and be able to Crack more jokes and make a lot of amigos
Hello David.
I can converse beautifully online, but when it comes to being in a group setting, I seem to become tongue-tied. How can I overcome that? Regards Kal.
P.S. Looking forward to your Awkward to Awesome.
I support this
I will feel comfortable and confident in social settings
Be the friend to initiate a hangout for once and also be patient and listen to others speak before saying something.
Becoming a better version of myself and accomplishing my goal into becoming an animator.
I want to feel at ease in a group of people and flow naturally with the conversation.
My goal is to come up with a goal.
I will try to share more about myself without feeling I’m not important enough.
I will talk a little more about myself when I am asked!
The next time I talk to someone I will try to make that person valuable by making a sincere compliment or thanked them for what they do or did, …
I will add to conversations
Randomly putting in my voice in a conversation even though people would be surprised I suddenly spoke even after being with them from so long but never making them realize my presence
sharing more about myself
Hold eye contact for a few seconds longer
Asking someone to get together with me and asking for their phone number. I admit that I feel nervous.
I want to be able to speak to be free with girls and I want to be able to speak up
At the moment I’m conjuring thoughts on how to answer the question” tell me something about yourself” in relation to an upcoming job interview and the alternative ” walk me through your resume” to sound more natural rather than redundant.
I will try to give an honest opinion in a conversation without being scared of being judged for it and without trying to please others
Yes Iram. Go!
Start an interesting conversation without holding back due to fear of being judged or awkwardness.
I will add to the conversation in the majority of the questions asked in group
Try to use the “going back to a earlier topic” advice in a conversation to further continue the flow of the conversation.
Ask for a friends number who l want to become better friends with and insane and start more conversations.
Not holding back in conversations just say what you think
That’s a great goal. Feel free to let us know how it went in a week or so!
Will do.