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Natalie Watkins, M.Sc

Natalie Watkins writes about socializing for SocialSelf. She holds a B.A. in Experimental Psychology from the University of Oxford, an M.S.c. in Cognitive and Clinical Neuroscience from the University of London, and is currently in her final year of an MSc in Integrative Counselling at the University of Northampton.
15 Ways To Avoid Small Talk (And Have a Real Conversation)

15 Ways To Avoid Small Talk (And Have a Real Conversation)

July 12, 2022February 10, 2022 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated July 12, 2022

Disliking small talk is probably the no. 1 complaint we hear from our readers. It’s not surprising. No-one really wants to talk about the weather or the traffic over and … Read more

Body Neutrality: What It Is, How to Practice & Examples

Body Neutrality: What It Is, How to Practice & Examples

September 21, 2022February 9, 2022 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated September 21, 2022

The relationship we have with our bodies can be one of the most important relationships in our lives. It’s certainly the longest-lasting. Unfortunately, many of us have uncomfortable or even … Read more

How to Improve Your Social Health (17 Tips With Examples)

How to Improve Your Social Health (17 Tips With Examples)

August 17, 2022February 7, 2022 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated August 17, 2022

We’re all used to being told that we need to improve our physical health, and we’re becoming increasingly accustomed to talking about our mental health. But what about our social … Read more

How To Keep A Conversation Going With A Girl (For Guys)

How To Keep A Conversation Going With A Girl (For Guys)

June 8, 2022February 4, 2022 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated June 8, 2022

Making conversation can be challenging, and it’s even worse if you’re talking to an attractive girl. You might be worried about making mistakes, looking bad, or making her feel uncomfortable. … Read more

How To Improve Your Social Awareness (With Examples)

How To Improve Your Social Awareness (With Examples)

August 15, 2022February 2, 2022 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated August 15, 2022

We’ve all had times when we’ve misread a social situation or misjudged how someone else will react to something. For some, these are rare occurrences, but others feel that they … Read more

How to Tell Someone You Love Them (For the First Time)

How to Tell Someone You Love Them (For the First Time)

January 19, 2022 Natalie Watkins, M.Sc

Is there anything scarier than trying to tell someone you love them? Many people would prefer to face snakes Indiana Jones-style than risk saying those three little words aloud. It … Read more

How to Talk to a Guy You Like (Even if You Feel Awkward)

How to Talk to a Guy You Like (Even if You Feel Awkward)

May 2, 2022January 10, 2022 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated May 2, 2022

Talking to strangers can be a challenge at the best of times. Talking to a guy you like is often much more intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. Here … Read more

What Are Social Skills? (Definition, Examples & Importance)

What Are Social Skills? (Definition, Examples & Importance)

August 22, 2022January 7, 2022 Viktor Sander B.Sc., B.A. and Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated August 22, 2022

You’ve probably read loads of articles about how important social skills are. It can be difficult to improve social skills when you don’t really understand exactly what they are and … Read more

How To Be More Present And Mindful In Conversations

How To Be More Present And Mindful In Conversations

December 20, 2022January 6, 2022 David A. Morin and Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated December 20, 2022

Having great conversations is about making the other person feel interesting and important. Being more present and mindful in your conversations shows you are interested in others. It can also … Read more

How to Give Sincere Compliments (& Make Others Feel Great)

How to Give Sincere Compliments (& Make Others Feel Great)

September 5, 2022January 5, 2022 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated September 5, 2022

Giving someone a sincere compliment can really make their day. It can leave them feeling more confident, capable, and enthusiastic. Giving a great compliment isn’t always easy to get right, … Read more

How to Build Confidence (Even if You’re Shy or Uncertain)

How to Build Confidence (Even if You’re Shy or Uncertain)

August 17, 2022December 17, 2021 Natalie Watkins, M.Sc and David A. MorinLast updated August 17, 2022

If you struggle with self-confidence, it can be difficult to try new things or make new friends. It can become a vicious cycle, where low confidence makes it hard to … Read more

How To Express Emotions In A Healthy Way

How To Express Emotions In A Healthy Way

August 24, 2022November 25, 2021 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated August 24, 2022

Being able to express our emotions in a healthy and constructive way is essential to all of our relationships. It can also be a huge factor in how we take … Read more

How to Be More Charming (& Have Others Love Your Company)

How to Be More Charming (& Have Others Love Your Company)

September 23, 2022October 28, 2021 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated September 23, 2022

“I feel like I’m not charming, and I alienate people. I want to be a charming person who everyone wants to be with.” Most of us probably know someone who … Read more

How To Be More Charismatic (And Become Naturally Magnetic)

How To Be More Charismatic (And Become Naturally Magnetic)

September 23, 2022October 13, 2021 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated September 23, 2022

“I try to take part in social events, but I have no charisma whatsoever. I always feel smaller than I really am and almost never manage to get heard in … Read more

Are You Losing Respect For a Friend? Why & What to Do

Are You Losing Respect For a Friend? Why & What to Do

August 12, 2022October 5, 2021 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated August 12, 2022

Realizing that you’ve lost respect for a friend can be a shock. Sometimes, it happens suddenly as a result of something they say or do. Other times, it can be … Read more

How to Stop Someone From Interrupting (Polite & Assertive)

How to Stop Someone From Interrupting (Polite & Assertive)

September 1, 2022September 24, 2021 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated September 1, 2022

Being interrupted can make you feel disrespected and belittled. You may wonder whether the other person really cares about what you have to say at all. Even if you understand … Read more

How To Not Be Clingy With Friends

How To Not Be Clingy With Friends

August 3, 2022May 20, 2021 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated August 3, 2022

Making new friends is a fantastic feeling, but it can come with a host of insecurities. One common worry is that we’re scared of being too clingy or needy.[1] This … Read more

How To Stop Being Sarcastic

How To Stop Being Sarcastic

May 14, 2021 Natalie Watkins, M.Sc

Many people enjoy a little bit of sarcastic humor now and again, but we need to be careful that we don’t use too much sarcasm. It’s easy for sarcastic (and … Read more

How to Live Life Without Friends (How to Cope)

How to Live Life Without Friends (How to Cope)

August 17, 2022April 28, 2021 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated August 17, 2022

“Can a person be happy without friends? Is having no friends dangerous? I have zero friends, and sometimes I wonder whether there’s something wrong with me.” There can be a … Read more

How to Read And Pick Up On Social Cues (As an Adult)

How to Read And Pick Up On Social Cues (As an Adult)

September 12, 2022March 21, 2021 Natalie Watkins, M.ScLast updated September 12, 2022

Picking up on social cues (and knowing how to respond to them) is an incredibly helpful skill when you’re trying to be socially adept. It can also be pretty frustrating … Read more

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