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Daniel Wendler, Psy.D.

Daniel Wendler, PsyD has a doctoral degree in clinical psychology at George Fox University, Newberg, OR. He is a two-time TEDx-speaker, author, founder of ImproveYourSocialSkills.com, and the 1.6 million members subreddit /socialskills.
How to Not Get Nervous Talking to People (For Introverts)

How to Not Get Nervous Talking to People (For Introverts)

August 15, 2022November 24, 2020 David A. Morin and Daniel Wendler, Psy.D.Last updated August 15, 2022

“Why do I get so nervous around new people? How do you overcome your conversation anxiety?” I remember how nervous I could get when I met new people. I could … Read more

How to be a high energy person socially if you’re low energy

How to be a high energy person socially if you’re low energy

August 6, 2020April 1, 2019 David A. Morin and Daniel Wendler, Psy.D.Last updated August 6, 2020

This is the complete guide on how to be high energy, even if you feel low energy in social settings. Someone that’s too low energy can come off as inhibited, … Read more

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