How to Double Your Social Confidence in 5 Minutes

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1: Use “conversational threading” to avoid awkward silence

2: Learn secrets to get past empty small talk

3: Beat self-consciousness with the “OFC-Method”

4: Go “from boring to bonding” in less than 7 words

5: Learn why you won’t need weird out of your comfort-zone exercises

6: Create meaningful friendships, even if you don’t love socializing

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