Challenge: Do Something Exciting


Did you know that just by writing a goal down, you become 42% more likely to reach that goal?

Challenge: Write down one small step you could take in your next social interaction. It should be something that feels exciting, not terrifying.

Check the comments below for inspiration. If someone writes something you like, let them know in the comments that they have your support.

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  1. I’m gonna talk if there’s something in my mind. I’m going to make that joke, even if it’s bad and cringey… I will try not to care about other people’s reaction. If they like it, cool; if they don’t, I made a bad joke and we can move on. It’s only awkward if I overthink it.

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  2. I would love to just be able to have the confidence to be able to talk to people with out having that anxiety feeling in my stomach
    I just know if I could relax the nerve’s I would be fine.

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  3. I want to look and act more confident when talking to people. I also want to try to carry a conversation without being awkward or boring.

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  4. I want to talk with confidence so that I get stronger connections.
    I want to stop being in fear of what others think of me

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  5. My goal is to talk more and not to just say silent as always, so yes I will talk more with all the people around and I will share things with my schoolmates and friend.

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  6. I want to communicate with people without feeling awkward or less confident than I was before the conversation began

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  7. I just want to be chill with everything and not hyperactive whenever I talk to people I get adrenaline and nervousness

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  8. I want to be able to have a good conversation without thinking of how I look or I don’t have money. I will like to have a conversation one day that I won’t feel awkward because have not experienced what they are discussing before then keel mute… it has to stop. I want to be able to make friendly connections and help them feel safe talking to me.

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  9. My goal is to feel relaxed when alone in a social setting. I hide it well already, I just want to feel less awkward in the moment, without needing a drink to calm the anxiety.

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  10. My goal is to know how to handle social surroundings and be better at making friends because I will know how too.

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  11. I will confidently express my opinion both in office and social settings not minding whether it differs from other people’s opinion or not

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  12. Have a meaningful conversation that makes the other person feel refreshed or good about their lot, themselves, etc.

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  13. Really paying attention to the what the other person/people are saying without being so worried about what I’m going to say next. Being willing to pause and think about what I’m saying next.

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