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How to Talk to People With Confidence

(Without Blanking Out, Second Guessing, or Getting Stuck in Small Talk)

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“SocialSelf stands apart”
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“SocialSelf stands apart”
Daniel Wendler, Psy.D Author, founder of 1.2M subreddit Socialskills, 2x TEDx speaker
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1M+ members have joined SocialSelf
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600 000 people read SocialSelf’s advice each month

More Confident Conversations - In 10 Minutes Per Day

In 10 minutes a day from the comfort of your couch, Conversation Confidence can help build stronger conversation- and connection skills.

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Getting Self-Conscious When Talking to People?

Can you relate to our students’ most common struggles?

  • Worrying about how to stand, where to put their hands, or if their posture is weird
  • Blanking out
  • Getting intimidated and nervous by confident people, tall people, high-status people, or someone they’re into
  • Sometimes viewing themselves through the lens of the other person – and like they’ll be judged if they make any little mistake.
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This Program Is For Those of Us Who

  • Are tired of being met with blank stares and polite smiles and ready to build real connections
  • Want to feel self-assured in our ability when talking to someone
  • Want to come up with things to say and not blank out, stumble, or feel stupid
  • Want to feel confident even around intimidating people or someone we may want more than friendship with
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79% Report an increase in self-confidence
82% Report an increase in social skills
80% Report feeling less nervous socially
*According to a survey of 819 SocialSelf members
Discover How to Bypass Small Talk and Build Real Connections
Imagine getting past the “-How are you?” “-I’m good, how are you?” “-Good...” and build real connections instead. Connect:
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Introducing Conversation Confidence

Conversation Confidence helps us build our conversation skills at our own pace through simple, intuitive, simulated conversations.

This program is designed to help us in the following areas:

  • Knowing what to say to not blank out
  • Over time, feeling much less awkward around people
  • Breaking free from old conditioning we carry from the past
  • Gaining the ability to talk to anyone (Be it someone we’re into, a group of people, or simply someone interesting)
  • Breaking through shallow small talk to build real connections faster.
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Part 1

Course Curriculum

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Simulated conversations designed to help us talk to people with confidence:

Build the ability to intuitively know what to say to move the conversation forward, maintain interest, and form real connections with strangers, co-workers, and friends.

Topics include:

  • Creating engaging, interesting, confident conversations using the “attentional-shift” method.
  • A method to bypass the inner voice that creates self-consciousness
  • A little-known trick to use whatever someone says as a “conveyor belt of new topics” to pick from
  • How to get more permanent, life-long results
  • And much more…

Day 1

How to bypass the part of the brain that makes us feel self-conscious

Day 2

How to use what someone says as a “conveyor belt of topics” to pick from

Day 3

A little known method to overcome awkward silence

Day 4

Creating engaging conversations by asking questions the right way

Day 5

Developing the presence of mind to know what to say

Day 6

The “Attentional shift”-method that helps eradicate remaining conversation jitters

Day 7

Using attention direction to build interesting conversations

Day 8

The “check-in”-method that builds stronger belief in one self.

Day 9

Toward life-long results.

See What Our Members Have to Say

“I feel like a completely different person” “I used to struggle with socializing and felt uncomfortable in social settings. However, after taking this course, I feel like a completely different…” Read moreAnthony, 32
Product Manager
North Carolina, USA
“One of the most valuable investments you can make in yourself” “I feel like the course provided some grounded truths that I had been blind to before. Anxiety has a way of…” Read moreBridget Viernes, 31
Teacher
USA
“I highly recommend this course” “I completed the course and found it to be incredibly valuable. It covered a wide range of topics, including effective communication, active listening…” Read moreWallace Rangel, 40
Civil Servant
Brazil
“I have struggled with social anxiety my whole life.” “I have avoided making connections with people. And it has resulted in me not having any friends…” Read moreLorena Hernandez, 23
Doctor Assistant
California, USA
“I felt like there was no hope for me, but it’s amazing to see the progress I’ve made.” “I’ve been quiet for as long as I can remember. Not until middle school did I start…” Read moreJerry Finn, 28
Web Developer
Arkansas, USA
“I really wish I had come across this when I was young” “I am a little older than most people taking this course, (late 50s) but it’s never too late…” Read moreLindy, 58
Musician
Canada

About David Morin

David A. Morin featured in Entrepreneur Magazine

Hi! I’m David, founder of SocialSelf.

When my middle school peers went to school discos, I was at home building model cars.

As I grew older I felt clueless about how to talk to people.

I had some friendships through school, but sometimes they were one-sided and other times toxic.

As an adult I spent lots of weekends alone and the thought of socializing made me anxious.

I felt like I bored people. I got stuck in small talk. I got ignored in groups.

And at the same time, I didn’t want to turn into one of those over-extroverted “party goes” that I associated with socializing.

Out of pure luck, I got to know really socially savvy people that I actually liked.

I studied what they did and realized that you don’t have to be loud and obnoxious or shallow to have a great social life.

You can build close friendships and even enjoy meeting new people – while being yourself more than ever!

When I started figuring this out, people began asking me for advice. And that’s how SocialSelf started, over 12 years ago!

It’s so cool to get out of bed every morning and read emails from people who thank us for their new, more fulfilling social lives. And if this program makes a big change in your life too, I‘d be so happy to hear from you!

How the Confidence of Knowing What to Say Can Unlock Life
Being able to talk to people and connect with them helped me unlock the things I enjoy the most about life.
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What’s included in your program:

  • Conversation simulations to improve talking skills from home
  • Exercises designed to develop core confidence in conversations
  • Lifetime access to all updates

Course Details:

  • Course length: 4 weeks, 10-15 minutes per day
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