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About Mathew Muskeyn
Hi!
I’m Mathew, Head Coach at SocialSelf.
Growing up, I struggled with feeling awkward and out of place. I was overweight, had a high-pitched voice, was small, and was late to puberty.
I was raised without a father and had no role model of what a healthy masculine man was. Raised by a single Mother, I leaned more into my feminine energy, which meant girls “liked me” as a friend, but I struggled to build attraction.
I eventually found myself in a relationship and when it ended, I felt lost.
My attempts to connect with women through pick-up tactics led to superficial relationships that left me feeling empty.
I realized I wanted something deeper—a meaningful relationship with someone who could support me and help me grow.
Despite my efforts, I found myself stuck in the friendzone and seen as the “nice guy.”
It took years of self-discovery and learning what truly attracts women. After many rejections and mistakes, I eventually met my now-wife.
This journey wasn’t easy, and I’m not here to promise it will be for you either. But I’m here to share what I’ve learned over the past decade so you can skip the struggles I faced and build genuine, lasting connections with women.
Gain the Confidence to Talk to Women
Man to woman communication is a skill that any man can learn, no matter how introverted, shy, or socially awkward you might feel. With the Authentic Attraction Club, you’ll get personalized coaching that’s designed to help you overcome the anxiety and awkwardness, so you can finally meet and talk to women confidently and from a genuine place.
Are you fed up with feeling alone, unsure how to talk to women or build a genuine connection?
Maybe you’ve never had a relationship and you’ve no idea how to attract a woman, or you’ve been through a long-term relationship that left you with wounds and you’re unsure how to attract a healthy, stable partner. Or maybe you’ve had a couple of brief, surface level connections but are ready for something deeper and more committed.
Whatever your experience, you’re ready for something more—a genuine connection with a woman who values you for who you are.
Build Genuine Attraction
Society gives mixed messages: be nice and get friend-zoned, or be alpha and seem like a jerk.
So, how do you attract women while staying true to yourself? That’s exactly what I’ll teach you inside the Authentic Attraction Club—the kind of support I wish I had when I started out.
This isn’t another course telling you to just “be yourself” or “trust your instincts”—because let’s face it, that doesn’t work.
And it’s definitely not about manipulating women into attraction. Look, I used to approach women 6 days a week for 3 months in Las Vegas, following everything the “pickup artists” said, and still felt miserable.
Here’s what I learned:
There are three ways you can interact with women:
- No confidence: This often leads to the friendzone or outright rejection.
- Obnoxious confidence: Sure, this might get attention, but only from insecure women, and it makes you come across as a jerk.
- Grounded confidence: This is the kind of healthy, authentic confidence that doesn’t rely on tricks or tactics, and it attracts confident, high-quality women who value you for who you truly are.
In Authentic Attraction Club, we focus on building that grounded confidence that leads to real, genuine connections—so you can attract a long-term, committed relationship or marriage, without having to pretend to be someone you’re not.
See What Our Members Have to Say
“Working with Mat has been one of a kind experience, I learned more from him than over a decade of searching for things on my own online!”
Read moreRam Siva, 34Accounting
Canada
“The strategies I learned with Mathew have completely changed the way I interact with women. I feel more confident and genuine than ever before.”
Read morePetras, 36Developer
Hungry
“Mat’s coaching gave me the confidence I needed to start conversations with women. I never thought I could be this comfortable in social situations.”
Read moreJon Unal, 46IT Manager
Turkey
Introducing The Authentic Attraction Club
A membership program designed to help you overcome social anxiety, build confidence, and finally learn how to talk to women and build genuine attraction—without feeling awkward, fake, or get stuck in the friendzone.
Improve your communication skills and confidence, through weekly live coaching sessions (you can be 100% anonymous), recorded content (so you can follow at your own pace) and a network of like-minded men – all from the comfort of your home.
Learn how to build genuine connections with women you meet naturally in social situations - while you feel comfortable and stay true to yourself.
Talk to Women Confidently and Naturally (without feeling creepy or weird)
Develop conversation skills that allow you to be present in the moment, relax, and engage without overthinking or second-guessing yourself.
Understand How to Pick Up on Her Subtle Cues
Learn what her body language, facial expressions, and tone mean, so you know exactly when to move things forward. You’ll never feel unsure about when or how to make the next step in your interactions.
Build Attraction the Right Way (so you don’t get stuck in the friendzone)
Understand how to develop a balance of healthy masculinity without being seen as the “nice guy” or “jerk.”
Keep the Connection GrowingLearn the emotional and mental shifts needed to create deeper bonds and meaningful interactions that have the potential to evolve into a long-term, committed relationship or marriage.
Gain Grounded ConfidenceDiscover practical exercises and real-time feedback to build self-assurance that impacts every area of your life—work, friendships, and beyond.
Let Go of Limiting BeliefsBreak free from the thoughts that keep you stuck in your head and express your masculinity in a healthy, authentic, and non-toxic way. This will allow you to attract a high-quality woman who complements your values and goals in life, without compromising who you are.
Build Your Conversation and Communication Skills (for Any Social Setting)Learn how clear, confident communication enhances your entire social presence and discover conversational strategies that help you build genuine connections instead of relying on rehearsed opening lines, so you can initiate conversations with confidence.
Here’s what you’ll receive:
Weekly Group Coaching Calls (You can be 100% anonymous)
Network & Accountability
Practical Strategies for Real Results
See What Our Members Have to Say
“Whenever I want to achieve anything in life, I go to the best because I know it will help me the most… that’s why I chose Mathew as my coach”
Read moreDave, 29Outdoor Pursuits Instructor
UK
“I’ve joined a whole bunch of trainings in my life and nothing has been as impactful as this”
Read moreJordan, 33Entrepreneur
AUS
“This is exactly what I was looking for, practical, honest advice that would make a difference, it’s been hands down one of the best investments I’ve made.”
Read moreDedy Tien, 39Coach
Indonesia
Our personalized coaching program is designed to address your unique challenges with women and help you build lasting, authentic connections. Some of the topics we’ll cover include:
($5,997 Value) Live Weekly Group Coaching Calls (Led by Mathew)
(Digital Course) Learn the science behind making a strong first impression and becoming someone women are naturally drawn to
(Digital Course) Neuroscience has given us a new way to build unbreakable confidence. This training program will help you become more self-assured in conversations, making you more attractive to women—all from the comfort of your home.
A step-by-step system for making conversations with anyone. Learn how to move beyond small talk, avoid awkward silences, and create genuine connections that can lead to deeper relationships.
Transform into a better conversationalist and form close relationships faster. This fun game will help you move past small talk and make meaningful connections, ensuring you stand out and become memorable to the women you meet.
Every week, Mathew will introduce a new topic along with practical strategies for you to apply. At the end of each training session, he will hold live Q&A coaching, giving you the opportunity to address your specific challenges directly with him.
- Weekly Calls: Live on Zoom every Wednesday. We alternate between 6PM and 11 AM PDT, to accommodate different time zones.
- Structured Sessions: Each week, we explore a new topic, giving you the frameworks to start building confidence in yourself and talking to women.
- Live Coaching: Ask your specific questions and receive expert feedback and advice during the live sessions.
- Recorded Sessions: All sessions are recorded, so you can easily catch up if you miss a live call.
- Anonymous Participation: Feel free to participate anonymously if you prefer to keep your identity private.
- No Mandatory Homework: There’s no set homework, but fully engaging during the sessions will maximize your growth.
- Flexible Attendance: If you miss a session, or can’t join us live, you can review the recording and still gain valuable, actionable insights.
- Preparation Tips: For the best experience, find a quiet spot and allow some time before and after the call to focus and reflect.
- Flexible Membership: You're in control—cancel your monthly membership anytime, no questions asked.
About Mathew Muskeyn
Hi!
I’m Mathew, Head Coach at SocialSelf.
Growing up, I struggled with feeling awkward and out of place. I was overweight, had a high-pitched voice, was small, and was late to puberty.
I was raised without a father and had no role model of what a healthy masculine man was. Raised by a single Mother, I leaned more into my feminine energy, which meant girls “liked me” as a friend, but I struggled to build attraction.
I eventually found myself in a relationship and when it ended, I felt lost.
My attempts to connect with women through pick-up tactics led to superficial relationships that left me feeling empty.
I realized I wanted something deeper—a meaningful relationship with someone who could support me and help me grow.
Despite my efforts, I found myself stuck in the friendzone and seen as the “nice guy.”
It took years of self-discovery and learning what truly attracts women. After many rejections and mistakes, I eventually met my now-wife.
This journey wasn’t easy, and I’m not here to promise it will be for you either. But I’m here to share what I’ve learned over the past decade so you can skip the struggles I faced and build genuine, lasting connections with women.
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Frequently asked questions
Why not just figure this out by myself?
You absolutely can figure this out on your own. I did. It’s possible, but it takes a really long time and involves a lot of unnecessary pain.
I spent years in the friend zone, getting rejected, and making the same mistakes over and over. I tried pickup artist tactics for months, approaching women 6 days a week in Las Vegas, only to feel empty and fake. It took me nearly a decade of trial and error to finally understand what actually creates authentic attraction.
Taking this course is like hitting the fast-forward button on your dating life. This program contains the exact system I wish I had when I was struggling – the roadmap that would have saved me years of confusion, rejection, and wasted time.
Would I have paid for this knowledge back then? Without question. If I could have fast-tracked those painful years of not knowing how to get out of the friend zone, how to show romantic interest without being creepy, or how to create real attraction… it would have been worth every penny.
The guys who join this program have decided to learn from my painful experiences instead of repeating them.
Even if you feel like you’re years behind other guys, this course gives you the opportunity to make a giant leap forward. Many of our members don’t just catch up – they use what they learn to build the kind of genuine, lasting relationships that most men only dream about.
The choice is yours: spend years figuring it out the hard way like I did, or learn the system that actually works.
Why pay for a course like this when there’s so much free advice out there?
With all the free dating advice on YouTube, Reddit, and pickup forums, how come every guy isn’t walking around with amazing dating skills?
Because more advice doesn’t make you better at attracting women. Most free content is just “advice-bombs” that leave you more confused than when you started.
We don’t give you more tips – we give you insights that create real change. Instead of another list of “things to say” or pickup lines, you get the deeper understanding of how attraction actually works. Information is easy to forget when you’re nervous talking to a woman. But when you truly understand the principles, they become part of who you are.
This isn’t based on theory or pickup artist tactics. Everything in this program comes from real-world experience – my decade of trial and error, plus working with hundreds of men just like you. It’s the system that actually works, not just what sounds good on paper.
Am I too young/old for this?
The principles of authentic attraction work regardless of your age. I’ve worked with men from 18 to 55+ who’ve all seen incredible results.
If you’re younger (18-25): You’re actually in the perfect position to learn these skills before developing bad habits. Instead of wasting years in the friend zone or trying pickup artist tactics that don’t work, you can build genuine confidence from the start. Many of my younger clients wish they’d learned this in college instead of struggling through their early twenties.
If you’re in your late 20s-30s: This is often when men get serious about finding a real relationship instead of just dating around. You have the maturity and life experience to implement these concepts authentically. Many clients in this age range see the fastest results because they’re motivated and ready to do the work.
If you’re 40+: It’s never too late to transform your dating life. Whether you’re coming out of a long relationship, divorced, or never learned these skills in the first place, the fundamentals remain the same. Some of my most successful transformations have been men who decided to finally invest in themselves later in life.
What matters isn’t your age, it’s your willingness to learn and grow. The biggest mistake is thinking “I should have figured this out by now” and continuing to struggle instead of getting the help you need. The best time to start was 10 years ago. The second best time is right now.
Will this help me attract lots of women for casual connections?
This program will absolutely make you more attractive to women in general, but it’s specifically designed for men who want genuine, meaningful connections, not just numbers.
When you develop authentic confidence and learn how to create real attraction, you naturally become more appealing to quality women. You’ll have more options, which is actually crucial for finding the right person.
But here’s the thing – this isn’t a pickup artist course teaching you how to manipulate or juggle multiple women. That approach leads to shallow connections and ultimately leaves you feeling empty (trust me, I tried it).
Instead, you’ll learn how to:
- Attract women who are genuinely compatible with you
- Have the confidence to be selective about who you pursue
- Create authentic connections that could lead to something real
- Approach dating from a place of abundance, not desperation
Most guys who struggle with women think they want to attract “multiple women,” but what they really want is the confidence and skills to attract the right woman when they meet her.
This program gives you both: the ability to create attraction with quality women AND the wisdom to recognize when you’ve found someone worth pursuing seriously.
If you’re just looking for hookup strategies or how to string women along, this isn’t for you. But if you want to become the kind of man that high-quality women are genuinely excited to be with, then yes – this will absolutely help.
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